Concerning 'good in bed' threads

Everybody is completely and utterly different in the bedroom department im sure my first time with my boyfriend he didn't think I was good at all! but it takes time and practise and for me being in a relationship has made me better. What one person loves another could hate though so theres not really such thing as good in bed

I'll let itssimplyme be the judge of that

Hahaha Robbie!


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Haha I am a bit cheeky as you probably know by now

Well, we live in strange times, in which people feel freer than ever, and have more choices, and examples of different standards, (relating to everything from consumables to dating prospects) than ever, yet in some ways feel less certain/more paralysed/less easily pleased/more dissatisfied with their choices than ever



Too late

Yes


M'lady

Good girl, although I'd suggest there should perhaps be other reasons for not getting one.. (see my fred for further elucidation)

Fairy muff

Dw, completely oblivious

Sex has always been one of the most popular topics on TSR, but recently I've been wondering why some people are getting so hung up on if their significant other is good/bad in bed?

To those of you who've had your first kiss, I suppose the majority found it a little clumsy, perhaps a bit too much tongue and not the Hollywood moment that was expected. As a virgin I could be naive, but couldn't that apply to the bedroom too? I guess what I'm trying to say is couples should enjoy the intimacy of sex, acknowledging that with communication (the key to every successful relationship), and as they get to know each other and their bodies more, that all this 'good in bed' stuff will come (if you pardon the pun) with time and patience.

Because it matters to some? Obviously, you can be better or worse in bed. I disagree with those who go on about how sleeping with a hundred people makes you somehow "ridiculously good," though. Most people I know are agreed that sleeping with someone you're in a relationship with and know well (whether it's seen as morally better or not) tends to be better as there's more of a connection and you know just what you like. It's not all about general experience, more experience with that particular person.

I wouldn't touch anyone who'd slept around with a barge pole TBH, "experience" or no, higher chance of having STDs and whilst I'm not judgmental or man-slut-shamey it often says a lot about the kind of person they are.

P.S. I'd take everything *some people* say when going on about how "women are easy to seduce" and other sexist nonsense on TSR with a pinch of salt... *cough*... This forum gets its share of socially inept people who will tell you complete nonsense. I assume you're young based on your username, but that doesn't mean everything everyone else says here is correct. Please don't take everything you read here too seriously.

Yes, you're right. It takes most people some time to be good in bed and a lot more experience to then be great in bed. My first girlfriend knew I was a virgin and was very understanding about the fact that things wouldn't be amazing initially. It was probably thanks to her attitude that I had the confidence and security to get good.

There's a lot of big talk on TSR but in reality I think most people are understanding about their partners and realistic about what to expect. Besides which, people don't tend to know what really amazing sex is until they're a bit older anyway.

Haha that's a refreshing side to here - most of the people I have spoken to consider their first kiss to be a bit of a mess! :P I guess like I said I've not had sex so this is all guesswork. Yep I agree

I would agree about it being better in a relationship. I know that some things posted on here are nonsense, but I just wanted to address this as it's not only something I've heard about online. I know people care, which to an extent is fine - it's just a reminder to consider things you can do if you feel your partner is not so good in bed. I appreciate the post

I know, I meant some stuff *particular posters* have been saying on this thread . I had an account on here before though I asked to get permabanned, and I've noticed a few people giving out patronising "advice" to younger girls that seems very suspect to say the least.

Just be careful OK?

The girl, who looked ****ing terrible as was, bit my tongue! Trauma!
The second one told me not to use my tongue, that was just a strange kiss.
3rd girl was hammered and got washing machine syndrome!
4th one, asked to get with me, started, then she ran away (she was my mate and not usually so forthcoming)

So my kissing experience whilst limited has never been good, some people just suck at it clearly.

I wouldn't worry But I see what you're trying to say. I suppose my ignorance with regards to la bedroom has been shown up somewhat throughout this here thread :P

I'm not worried, its not me with the strange problems, its girls with no technique! I thought it was pretty natural but apparently not.

Yup, my boyfriend was a virgin and we both knew not to expect fireworks from the off. Especially as I was still very insecure myself. But we love and trust eachother enough to experiment, not be afraid to to ask/do something potentially embarrassing etc. With security comes exploration and from that further confidence can be built. If we didn't have the emotional intimacy/chemistry drawing us together, then we couldn't work on the pleasure aspect at all. My boyfriend isn't my type physically at all. It's how he makes me feel in my heart that the butterflies and seeing stars come from. I'm not saying 'you only need love, it's not all about sex and you shouldn't want it, shame on you!' Far from it. Great sex is incredibly important to me @_@ what I'm saying is If you don't have the patience for your partner to get better in bed its a sign that the emotional magnetism isn't great enough to allow that part improve over time. It'll just be awkward and frustrating.

Yup, my boyfriend was a virgin and we both knew not to expect fireworks from the off. Especially as I was still very insecure myself. But we love and trust eachother enough to experiment, not be afraid to to ask/do something potentially embarrassing etc. With security comes exploration and from that further confidence can be built. If we didn't have the emotional intimacy/chemistry drawing us together, then we couldn't work on the pleasure aspect at all. My boyfriend isn't my type physically at all. It's how he makes me feel in my heart that the butterflies and seeing stars come from. I'm not saying 'you only need love, it's not all about sex and you shouldn't want it, shame on you!' Far from it. Great sex is incredibly important to me @_@ what I'm saying is If you don't have the patience for your partner to get better in bed its a sign that the emotional magnetism isn't great enough to allow that part improve over time. It'll just be awkward and frustrating.

That's really very well put and could serve as an excellent answer to all those moronic 'do girls find people like me attractive' questions.

Deep by default baby

Are you kidding me!? You can watch it over at mine if you like


Just playing along eh? Good girl

Oh you did? You are? So apparently I'm 'down with the kids'.. who knew?

How can one not?

Bananas to you Sir!