Original post by scorpion95All of your posts have contradicted themselves, rare is happening alot if you haven't noticed people getting arrested for calling black people wogs, calling a paki a paki etc etc quite often happens in the football world, calling muslims terrorists, what about the captain hook the one who did prays in the street about muslims attacking western countries getting deported on your basis he shouldn't have.
I really don't have a lot of time to type this because I have a lot of work to do tonight but I'll type this as quick as possible - don't be surprised if this is my last comment now. and you call them a contradiction yet you fail to explain this - I have used consistent principles of non-coercion throughout my reasoning, e.g. don't force me to wear a uniform, don't force others to wear a uniform, don't force me to pay for public school etc so long as I harm nobody else of deprive another of their freedom of choice etc. in terms of uniforms I consider this a transgression of that principle and if someone expresses humour or dislike towards what I or someone else wears this isn't an instigation of coercion against me or them, and therefore this is different to the reason I am against a coerced uniform policy towards children in a coercively exercised tax system-based school system. persuasion is not force. if someone insults what I wear yet doesn't rip them off my body, that merely serves as a persuasive element for me to change my clothes, but this doesn't rob me of any liberty to choose what clothes I wear and I am perfectly free to dismiss the criticisms that others give me regarding what I wear, and at the same time, I should be mindful of the effects that this may give rise to e.g. I may not be too affinative to make friends if I wear very peculiar clothes so I should account for this fact myself and not expect the people around me to help me by not wearing what I may consider more attractive clothes than mine.
See you said they are forced to wear school uniform however as you have just admitted they still have the option to be taught at home where they don't have to wear uniform it is still their choice, it is the same amount of choice they have of wearing top designer brands to not get bullied when they can't afford it so your point is still invaild. If they want to wear a uniform then go to school if don't want to wear school uniform get taught at home simple choice.
it is a very superficial notion of free will if the choices you get are very limited and fixed by somebody else for you against other non-problematic options (e.g. it goes without saying that you don't have an obligation to negotiate on other people's terms if it is against your will); if I force you to buy something from me and I say you have the liberty to not use it, are you going to be satisfied with that situation? if someone is forced to pay money and not benefit from it, the option are: don't waste your money, and waste your money. it's like saying "I have the freedom to punch you in the face, I'll just accept going to prison for this"; you don't have that freedom if it's based on a forced option being available that you aren't willing to accept while the other person (in this case, the government) *is* willing to bestow upon you through force regardless of how you feel; I could say "I have the freedom to either take your punch and put you in prison (representing the "justice" of accepting the admission of going to a school with uniforms as a reciprocation) or I can take your punch and do nothing about it (e.g. pay the tax and get nothing from it)" - if I'm physically forced to pay for something, I should expect something back, and the fact that I gain very little doesn't stop me from recognising the fact that gaining something is better than paying more for perhaps equal or less in return, seeing as most private clothes in my area operate a uniform policy, so again, it's arbitrary to say I have freedom to choose when the government is allowing me to either be forced to pay for a school that I don't want based on a uniform policy (if I was to be so persuaded to move merely because of the uniform which I, in reality wouldn't, but that's no relevant to the fact that I don't agree with a uniform policy) or I can move far away and go to a school that hasn't got a uniform policy; so I can either go to this uniform school, go to a private school miles away or I can get no qualified teachers from home (seeing as my parents are hardly teachers). it gives me a false choice of "either accept being taxed for this reward I'm giving you regardless of whether you'd accept it without the element of violence, or be forced to travel far away against your best interest (or stay at home and get no qualified tuition). therefore, this "choice", revolving around negotiations that are being forced upon me when I don't believe it should be (the uniform policy) which I shouldn't be expected to accept but I'm being forced into this term of negotiation because it is forced upon me via taxation - even though I'm not attending the school, I am forced to pay for it, and therefore forced to waste money all perhaps because these schools operate in a way I fundamentally disagree with (if we're talking about "choice", although I wouldn't in practice move or get home tuition, I'm simply demonstrating the reasoning if you're saying there is "choice")
"won't perhaps be treated in a particular way, so what? I'm not in school where you claim is the place where that would apparently matter." see now your saying you would get bullied for wearing unfashionable clothes, and you don't care about kids getting bullied for it, if kids are wearing own clothes in school bullying will get a lot worse you have just said it yourself so wearing a school uniform is a good thing.
no, I said on the hypothetical grounds that we're playing by your rule of the "fashion hierarchy"; I don't think people literally are bullied in society based on clothes, and in terms of school children up until perhaps the ages of 13 I don't think it happens there either. and as I've consistently argued - I don't care if kids get orally bullied, this isn't a valid reason to bully everybody else via government policy to wear uniforms through force; orally insults aren't a form of physical force against another person so I don't consider it against freedom of choice; I am free in society to, let's say, gamble at a casino, knowing the risks of losing a lot of money doing this, but I accept this and do it anyway and lose money - the principle applies with uniform and freedom - freedom comes with no only rewards but also losses if you're not responsible and rational with it.
As for spelling why yes I do remember you saying something oh yes this "I don't quite understand your bad wording" to which I then said and this includes some of quotes which you have made "lol "get bullied then that's your own fault if you were stupid clothes " first you have a spelling mistake obviously you know what your talking about "in schools if you don't take responsibility you get poor grades" " so this spelling topic has now officially ended, move on!
I *did* say if you wore "stupid" (a subjective term based on the opinions of those around you) clothes you'd logically expect to be criticised or shamed in some way - who said I didn't mean that? I stand by that completely - you can't just wear whatever you like and literally expect people to respect it - that's not how a lot of people in society function, as a lot of people are rude, sadistic etc etc. but that's life and stick and stones will break your bones but words'll never hurt you, etc etc. by the way, this isn't to say I think kids should actually orally bully each other, I think that's immoral, I didn't say that they should be *forced* not to, however. freedom of speech is more important that hurt feelings in my view, and you're welcome to disagree.
As for who said that you claimed to be better than poor people you did by saying poor people who can't afford to buy the latest designer clothes and were unfashionable clothes are stupid basically shows you feel poor people are lower than you and so you mock them. You can't deny that you want kids in school to know even more which kids parents are more rich and which kids parents are poor because by making kids wear their own clothes you are exactly doing that so your idea will therefore lead to more kids killing themselves. What has video games got to do with it you don't go to school to play video games that is something out of school so is completely different.
okay maybe you have a point - my choice of wording failed because by "stupid" I only meant "negative"; you're extending this to kids whom have no choice of clothing because maybe their parents are poor but not unintelligent - fair enough, I'll change my wording to account for your interpretation (e.g. I thought you'd be flexible with what I was pretty clearly saying) that I had not intended to mean: "if kids purposely wear unattractive clothes, *or* if kids have no choice of clothes and they have to wear stupid clothes, then that is not the fault of the school, that is the fault of their the child or the parents, and this principle extends into hairstyles, weight, etc".
Clothes and prices of clothes in schools will matter with no uniforms as the rich kids will show off their top brand designer clothes and the poor kids won't have designer branded clothes so will therefore get bullied. As for wearing the same clothes will you not be wearing the same clothes every week or would you expect your parents to get you new clothes everyweek which by the sounds of it you are expecting to be done. So now your moving on from clothes to hair now, hair is something completely different and off topic now from school uniforms.
again I must say I seriously doubt that schools are based on these obsessive fashion aristocracies; in my school when I was a kid, people would have a system of virtual royalty based on who'd have the best pokemon cards, and obviously, the kids that either didn't like pokemon (or failed to pretend to like it or adapt etc, not something I'd suggest but still an open option if they were desperate) or their parents were too poor to buy them pokemon cards - so what? let people have their subjective enjoyment if it harms nobody else (and I said "harm", not "hurt the feelings of"). I could perhaps equally apply this to the girl who'd have a sort of "ruling structure" based on who was best at playing with the skipping rope - those fit enough to do it well were respected a bit more in comparison to if they weren't good at it, whereas this obviously gave them an advantage based on their physical abilities, not money - but obviously, even if this was possible, I doubt you'd say we should render everybody unable to play with skipping ropes because certain people are overweight or weak. and again, based on how most schools, I suspect, have what is in effect a "sport based popularity system" perhaps; if you're good at football, you'll be "cool" - that's not to say we should ban football at break or lunch time (but ironically I'd actually say that kids shouldn't be forced to play P.E. if there's a chance of being kicked in the face or something e.g. which has happened counted time to me, so that must surely serve to demonstrate that my virtue of non-violence, even when it may be accidental, is bad, even bad enough to stop schools from forcing children into potentially painful environments, although I wouldn't go so far as extending this to forcing kids to not be given swimming lessons based on a small chance of drowning because drowing isn't cause by people accidentially kicking things at you etc it's caused by something internal if one was to suddenly drown in a pool, which obviously means that with that said, pools shouldn't be very deep on account of this)
so having poor parents is their fault is it which would result in them getting bullied for not having designer clothes, what a nice person you are wanting kids to get bullied more and to suffer more. ahh so now I see what you problem is with school uniforms it is that they are for poor people and rich kids are disgusted they have to wear such tat, the school uniform isn't designer so it should be banned. As for you getting laughed at for wearing tatty clothes in your example you missed your actual answer of - its your parents fault for giving you the tatty clothes and for them being poor. So now you are saying that if a kid doesn't get good grades it is the parents fault let me guess for being poor!! see you are changing your meaning yet again you said
"get bullied then that's your own fault if you were stupid clothes " which means as you have just stated "fashion hierarchy " therefore does exist and have admitted to and are now trying to deny there being one.
it's not their literal fault but that's their own business, not anybody else's -more simply, it's their parents fault and they're suffering for it in an objective sense. and yeah you could say I'm "a mean people" for recognising this principle that is logical, I'm not going to claim that I have a right to force children to wear different clothes because some people in the school will be poorer than others. kids are just going to have to live with it, because the initiation of force e.g. "don't physically harm the kid weaker than you" equally applies to a government if we're to recognise that principle of "don't physically force/threaten those children" if we're voting adults. I'll say that for anything based on that objective principle as humanly possible, e.g. don't force kids to have haircuts, don't force kids to have their ears pierced, don't force kids to get circumcised, etc because kids are more than property; the fact that they are somewhat economically determined by their parents doesn't draw away from that idea.
argued consistently my arse you have changed the meanings for things you have said in every post or are you just typing too fast to read properly what you are posting and are you actually reading any posts properly to actually give some viable consistent meanings to anyone?? You are basically saying kids should wear certain clothes to fit in so basically you want to force kids to wear certain clothes to advoid getting bullied which is basically what you are saying you are against "being forced".
what did I change the meaning of? I'll happy admit that I changed my choice of what at your own behest so you knew what I had intended to say based on two definitions of the same word (which was "stupid") but in terms of my arguments of principle how exactly could I possibly use the same principle and change my intended concept? principles aren't flexible things like that. and no! I didn't say that at all, I said they have the CHOICE to wear "popular" clothes if they're desperate to fit in at if they wear "silly" looking clothes than they should expect to be called out on that because people aren't angels (how many times must I repeat that same idea?) - that is completely different to physical coercion e.g. forcing me to pay for an all-uniform school, or forcing me to attend it; if I tried to run away from a school as a child do you think they'd let me do that without any interventions in respect to my liberty? and you can't possibly have interpreted me to mean, literally, that I want to actually physically coerce/force children to wear what I might think is "cool" - I completely detest that concept and that's the concept that is present in school uniform policies - I want children to choose what they want to wear based not merely on their social surroundings, but also on their own comfortability or self interest. that interpretation there was COMPLETELY against my principle that I've probably repeated too often now - the instigation of physical force against free will - that one principle - that's my underlying value in this debate! I'll accept happily that this has it's drawback e.g. perhaps this may cause kids to criticise each other, but that's not a value I uphold to be fundamental, e.g. I don't adovcate, and I suggested before, that people should be locked up and imprisoned for being immoral orally e.g. anti-religion, anti-culture or even racist, seeing as racism doesn't physically force people to do things or cause them physical pain/loss of property etc. but then again, after saying that based on my consistent non-violence principle you'll undoubtedly claim that because I'm so tolerant as to accept racist speech that mean I *must* be a racist, as if to say that accepting the different views of people in terms of politics is to consider myself exactly what they are, as by allowing someone to move their vocal chords to reflect what is in their minds, whether it's ignorant or invalid in my opinion, isn't an acceptable excuse to harm or rob people.
One thing that is being made clear is that you advocate bullying and hold yourself in a higher standing to poorer people who can't afford to buy designer branded clothes etc
oh my god. I can't believe you're actually saying that. seriously if I say "I condone x" that doesn't mean "I want x to happen" - I'll condone people being completely fools, that doesn't mean I WANT them to be fools - I don't have the right to force them to not be fools and I don't claim to know what's best for them over their own self-interests. as well, I condone peopl being fundamentalist muslims or nazis/communists, that doesn't mean I desire everybody to be those things, does it? I am simply more tolerant over the peaceful (not necessarily well-meaning) actions of non-violent individuals (including kids, whether this facilitates divisions is irrelevant). again, it's as if to say "I like capitalism, therefore I want everyone to be poor" or something.
You are now just contradicting yourself and changing all the meanings for things you have said trying to make yourself feel that you didn't mean this and that when you clearly did. You should really re-read what you have wrote in your previous posts to see the fact your meanings have constantly changed throughout. As for now I clearly have the high ground and that isn't going to change so I am going to end it here.
again, what meanings are you talking about? again, I changed one word for you to clarify what I had said based on the fact that "stupid" has two semantic and lexical meanings. what did I change the meaning of? "force"? by force I meant, as I have said so many times before, not give someone a choice in the matter (e.g. taxing a person to pay for an all-uniform school, or forcing people to wear uniforms) - I can't, for example, force somebody to change their clothes simply by insulting their clothes - people aren't sheep that'll do anything you tell them to do; their best interest and their right to wear what is in their best interest is their prerogative, not mine, and I don't claim to even intend for them to wear "cool clothes" if it means that they won't gain from it; although there is a chance that cool clothes will benefit someone in a school, it is irrelevant, for example, if they don't particularly care about making more friends than needed.
Good day sir
good day to you too and I hope you don't misunderstand what I've put in this reply because I intended to make it crystal clear