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Had sex with an escort. A few questions about it...

We had sex for about 30 seconds or so, does this count as losing your virginity?

I also found that I say sorry a lot during foreplay/ sex. Is this a turn off to anyone? She just told me to "relax" but it didn't make the slight bit of difference. My cock was hard for a bit and then when she said "you want to try and do it?" it kind of went flaccid after that

Please help! I want to be able to pleasure women and not have the embarrassment of ED making me worry about any other casual encounters I may come across.

Thank you and good day.
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Reply 1
Original post by Anonymous
We had sex for about 30 seconds or so, does this count as losing your virginity?

I also found that I say sorry a lot during foreplay/ sex. Is this a turn off to anyone? She just told me to "relax" but it didn't make the slight bit of difference. My cock was hard for a bit and then when she said "you want to try and do it?" it kind of went flaccid after that

Please help! I want to be able to pleasure women and not have the embarrassment of ED making me worry about any other casual encounters I may come across.

Thank you and good day.


I was honestly sick just reading this but yeah, big boy, you've lost your virginity even if it was to a skank you paid to lay you. Hand over your v card, you're a man now, son.


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Reply 2
How much did you pay and was it worth it?
Reply 3
Sexual encounters are not generally awkward. However, there are a few situations that can be particularly awkward:

1. Your first time
2. Sleeping with a prostitute
3. Not being able to get it up (quite often caused my the first two)

In short, it was bound to be awkward.
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Can we keep this on-topic to the questions / problems in the OP please

Aka less commenting on the OP's choice of partner or how disgusted you felt after reading the OP...
Reply 5
Viagra?
Reply 6
Original post by Liamnut
Sexual encounters are not generally awkward. However, there are a few situations that can be particularly awkward:

1. Your first time
2. Sleeping with a prostitute
3. Not being able to get it up (quite often caused my the first two)

In short, it was bound to be awkward.


Surely it'd be a lot less awkward with a lady of the night. Anyway you talk like you have experience?
Reply 7
Maybe you were too nervous with her, it would explain why you were saying sorry a lot. If you were with someone you were comfortable with you probably wouldn't say sorry all the time/fail to keep it up. But of course it counts as losing your virginity.
Reply 8
LOL.
OP do not apologise profusely during sex. That's the first thing and yes it is a massive turn off.
I remember that one time my then boyfriend when we first got it on, he thanked me afterwards. That sheeit is not sexy.
Reply 9
Original post by Tom78
Surely it'd be a lot less awkward with a lady of the night. Anyway you talk like you have experience?
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No, I'm actually asexual and plan on remaining celebate for the rest of my life. This is just intuition.

If it's someone you know who is in a similar situation, surly it won't be as awkward.
Have you thought about taking a trip to your local sexual health clinic?
Reply 11
Original post by FreedomCostsTax
Have you thought about taking a trip to your local sexual health clinic?


I have and I've been. I'm clean and I'm not surprised as it was protected sex we had.
Reply 12
Original post by Tom78
Viagra?


I've thought about this as this wasn't the first time that I got EDed. But I've heard that it messes up your hormones and it is not a good permanent solution, but thanks anyway.
You "arrived" while D was in V. So U C, U R now not a V plate holder.
Reply 14
Original post by Orthonym
Maybe you were too nervous with her, it would explain why you were saying sorry a lot. If you were with someone you were comfortable with you probably wouldn't say sorry all the time/fail to keep it up. But of course it counts as losing your virginity.


Thanks for this but this has happened before (though I didn't end up getting to sex) and this was with my ex girlfriend. I felt comfortable with her but every time we were going to try, I couldn't get it up :/
Reply 15
What does ED mean?

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Original post by Anonymous
I have and I've been. I'm clean and I'm not surprised as it was protected sex we had.


Have you ever heard of herpes?
Original post by ElChapo
What does ED mean?

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Erectile Dysfunction

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Reply 18
Original post by FreedomCostsTax
Have you ever heard of herpes?


Yes, I have. A lot of you seem to think I'm an idiot or something. I put this thread up to get help for my problems, not to be lectured into things I know.
Original post by Anonymous
Yes, I have. A lot of you seem to think I'm an idiot or something. I put this thread up to get help for my problems, not to be lectured into things I know.


I was just wondering why you weren't surprised that you didn't have herpes after having intercourse with an escort? If i was you, I'd be shaking in my boots. You must be brave, or just desperate.

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