Should I Tell My Mum??

Tell your mom you don't want to go swimming with him next time.

No matter how hard he tries to convince you, do not let him pet your pet snake! It's a trap!

Okay, should I tell her why?

I am not stupid ahah!

You don't have to but she'll probably ask and then I think you should be honest.

A good mum will listen and put her child first.

Just making sure and looking out for you. These sort of people are very sly!

No matter how hard he tries to convince you, do not let him pet your pet snake! It's a trap!

wtf does that mean

He does not look like a perv tbh but I don't know ahah!

wtf does that mean

OP, don't pet your mum's bf's trouser snake!

OP, don't pet your mum's bf's trouser snake!

But the speedo thing and checking you out whilst changing is really creepy!
Seriously?

But the speedo thing and checking you out whilst changing is really creepy!



Seriously?

OP, don't pet your mum's bf's trouser snake!

Yah! He is like 32 and she is 45! He is one of them muscle men though! I find him really creepy tbh like if we go shopping he will always try and buy me stuff like johnnies.

no do you mean touch his private parts

Have you spoken to your mum about him? Do you two get along, when your mum isn't there?



Finally! He gets it. I feel like a proud mother! :')

okay lol sorry this new language is a little hard for me to pick up on

Have you spoken to your mum about him? Do you two get along, when your mum isn't there?
Finally! He gets it. I feel like a proud mother! :')

How old are you? Are you certain he was 'checking you out'? It's quite a strong thing to suggest if he wasn't - perhaps he was just passing a glance and you saw it more as a 'stare', or maybe he was just looking at you without attraction and you misunderstood it? Regarding the speedos, maybe he was just trying to be nice and helpful, I don't really see how that is perverted or creepy. It's always a bit awkward with a parent's new partner and it's easy to look for flaws and mistakes, which are made even easier to find by the fact that they often try to do too much to make you happy. But if he makes her happy, try and look at it seriously, and please realise that accusing someone of pervertedness or paedophilia, even silently, is extremely harmful! If you truly don't want to go swimming any more, just let your mum know if you find it boring or something, but would be happy to do something else with them, perhaps something that involves more clothing to keep you comfortable. Of course if you really think he is interested in you and you are underage, you need to tell your mum.