I am 17 and I think my dad is emotionally abusive and so does my mum. My mum and dad are separated. My dad gets angry at me on a weekly basis and insults me almost every time I see him. He tells me I am unloveable, unlikeable, mean, unkind, selfish, getting fat, that I am turning into my mother (yes that is used as an insult and he picks out all of my mum's bad qualities), he has said that I abhorrent to him, I disgust him and he wants me to go and live with my mother and he looks forward to it when I am not at home.
Obviously these are hurtful things but he also punishes me for small things like not peeling potatoes quick enough and says that he will remove all funding for tennis (my main sport) if I misbehave towards him i.e. I might answer back because no one else is here to defend me. To give you both sides of the story my dad does pay for school fees and tennis coaching etc.
So am I overreacting or is this emotional abuse?