Will the heartache ever go away?

How long ago did you break up? It's very difficult, but I think it gets better over time.

Oooo as a guy it's happened to me once. I won't go into too much detail but the basics of it were that me and her were super super super close and I thought I could tell her anything turns out she disregarded everything I said (when I was going through a rough time) and since then we haven't spoken. For the first few days I couldn't stop thinking about her like that's all I thought about. Even on Whatsapp I sent her a message before and she didn't respond but her status was "online" kinda hurts that you're feeling ignored.... Anyways. I got over her in two weeks. I had a friend who helped me through that stage and without her I probably would be in heartache now. You need to find someone that you can confide in and trust and share anything with and that person will help you out alot!

I was with my first love for 15 months. He started dating someone else pretty much straight away and it hurt like hell for the first 3 months and took 6 months to get over it completely. Obviously that's just my experience and it will be different for everyone, but the pain won't last forever.

Sounds similar to me, he disregarded me when I was going through depression and eventually told him. Just sucks, somebody you give so much to- can you just forget you so easily. I had to go through hell and back just to be with him and it wasn't enough. The thing I do worry about is he's the first guy I've ever shown interest to, others I haven't and that's what worries me

Yup exactly like me :P I used to sit next to this girl in Law and she was all nice used to make me laugh a lot (we got separated multiple times) used to text all day go out to the park etc. I know it sounds pathetic but I genuinely thought she was the one. For you I would advise you to not to dwell too much on it. I know it sounds easy but I know it ain't. If you genuinely need anything else just PM me

the only thing that heals a broken heart is time.you will always remember the pain he caused you though.

We broke up a month and a half ago. He's completely over it, he moved on within the first week we split up. It's just seriously broken me, he was the first guy I ever really loved and trusted

You're in exactly the same situation as me. Also 1.5 months since breakup. Also first love/first person I trusted. Are you still in contact with him?

I will be honest the pain last for months and the bitter memories for years. New love is the best cure..

Sucks so bad doesn't it. I was, but no longer. Whenever we did try talking I'd just get stupidly angry with him for what he put me through and wed just argue, so we don't talk anymore:/. What about you??x

How am I supposed to find new love when I found it so hard to find somebody I truly loved in the first place

Also same. I always tried to talk to him and then got angry every time (I said some pretty hurtful things!), but I still wanted to talk to him obsessively. Even though it still hurts though, reducing contact makes you forget about it for a bit.

I'll tell you what I realised. The reason I was heartbroken wasn't because he left me... I knew that we aren't compatible and shouldn't be together. It was that he promised me he wouldn't leave me, and then he left me for someone else.

Try to imagine him begging you to come back to him and get back into a relationship, would you say yes? The answer would probably honestly be no, but you'd feel better if he did because it would make you feel like he at least somewhat cares about you, and when he told you he loved you in the relationship it wasn't a complete lie. That's what I'm feeling right now - the lack of care is what hurts so much.

The best thing to do is to stop caring yourself, as hard as it may be. He'll probably end up respecting you more if you get over it quicker and move on. Even if you don't feel like you can move on, it's still better to keep a distance from him and pretend like you did move on.