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Girls - Would you date a guy with smaller hands than you??

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Reply 60

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Original post by OxbridgeAddict

How old are you? :biggrin:

Try looking at my profile :tongue:

Reply 61

superduper9

Original post by awe

I can't believe there are actually comments on here saying that small hands and shortness = lack of masculinity. I can only really reassure myself that these comments are coming from people who perhaps haven't really experienced real relationships and intimacy in a mature situation before. Unfortunately I'm probably wrong. o.o Mad.

This is precisely what I was thinking. If girls are going to judge compatibility based on the supposed lack of masculinity due to small hands, then there is something wrong. To those girls with such views, I sure do hope that you are fair and have no problem in guys judging your femininity based on how curvy your hips are, how long your legs are and how big/nice your boobs are!

Sure, certain physical attributes can attract certain people, but I don't understand why not ticking one of these boxes should be a deal breaker.

Reply 62

carrotstar

Doesn't bother me. I have quite large hands, though, for a girl.

Reply 63

Polkadot2

I would only be slightly put off because I have tiny hands so it would be kind of strange. But it wouldn't be a deal breaker if that was the only thing I didn't like, it really wouldn't matter and I'd get over it!

As for the other comments - I just want to clarify I don't think it is a lack of masculinity as you can't help it!

(edited 10 years ago)

Reply 64

Anonymous #1

Original post by Anonymous

Incidentally I just measured mine. 18cm (from wrist to to tip of middle finger), average male is 18.9cm and average female is 17.2cm. Hmm.

Other studies have shown it to larger than that, around 17.5cm for a female and a bit over 19cm for a male. Ooooh some men starting to feel insecure lol. :biggrin:

Reply 65

Sharpshooter

My hands are close to the womens average than the males. Oh dear.

Don't think it matters much does it? I often take small mens gloves hehe.

Reply 66

Holby_fanatic

Maybe not... I like the fact my boyfriend has bigger hands than me. I have tiny hands so for a guy to have smaller ones would creep me out...

Plus, foreplay with bigger hands/fingers is always better. :colone:

(edited 10 years ago)

Reply 67

Eveiebaby

My boyf has smaller hands than me. Only a bit smaller. They're nice hands though. Delicate and soft. I don't want to be touched by rough, clumsy hands anyway. His hands always look so clean.
There's no hand to whatsername ratio y'know. Just sayin' :wink:

Reply 68

Ggmu!

Original post by alow

Wow. This thread is ridiculous.

People saying they wouldn't date someone because of HAND SIZE?!

This. What has tsr come to.

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Reply 69

Melinakri

I have been dating guys with smaller hands and although it never worked out in the end, I'm sure that wasn't a consequence of the size of their hands :wink:

If you like someone, it shouldn't matter how their hands look anyway, just saying :biggrin:

Reply 70

Anonymous #1

I suppose its more of an issue for girls with bigger hands, bit like taller girls having a problem with short guys sort of thing.

Reply 71

SuperDuperNoob

LOL. Read the title of the thread again.

Jesus Christ!

Reply 72

karvw

I'm in a relationship with a guy who is smaller than me in most ways. Smaller hands, smaller feet, shorter... etc. It doesn't put me off much, although I don't know what its like to date a "big" guy.

Reply 73

Anonymous #2

Original post by Obiejess

Nah cause I knew a guy with some massive feet and he didnt live up to the stereotype. However with hands its always been pretty accurate...

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As a guy with 21cm hands I can (sadly) say this isn't true...

Reply 74

username1345959

I've never actually met any guys with smaller hands than me (or maybe I have but just haven't realised)...even guys shorter than me (although I'm really short) have bigger hands than me.

Reply 75

CodeQ

Original post by Holby_fanatic

This!

Reply 76

Anonymous #1

Original post by Kandybars

I've never actually met any guys with smaller hands than me (or maybe I have but just haven't realised)...even guys shorter than me (although I'm really short) have bigger hands than me.

Its not unusual for women to have bigger hands than their bf's or anything. Whats the average shoe size for a girl these days? Size 6? Creeping up closer to the average mens. :cool:

Reply 77

username1345959

Original post by Anonymous

Its not unusual for women to have bigger hands than their bf's or anything. Whats the average shoe size for a girl these days? Size 6? Creeping up closer to the average mens. :cool:

I'm quite small though so it's unusual for me, haha :biggrin:

Reply 78

playstation98

That's a lie lol I have really small hands for a guy and I can safely say I'm well endowed :wink:

Reply 79

Marina Pearson

My boyfriend is the same height as me but I still wear heels and stuff and I'm taller than him then but I don't care. We have really similar sized hands and it doesn't put me off him xxx my hands are tiny so I'm not fussed :smile: