Believe it or not, it really does come down to how you approach people. In physical terms, my type's generally the skinny, tattooed, musician type, Using a recent clubbing experience as an example, I would choose the attractive black guy who approached me like a gentleman at the beginning of the night over any of the skinny white dudes rubbing themselves up against me without permission. Kind of wish I'd gone and found him by the end of the night to be honest! Similarly, in a dating context, I would choose that same guy and his fellow gentleman over some arrogant, self-obsessed white muscleman any day.