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How can I stop myself from punching my mum?

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She sounds so ****ed up, telling you ways to commit suicide? wtf :frown:

Domestic violence helpline seems to be the way forward, I wouldn't worry about the religious prayers, I doubt that if there were a god that he would inflict such horrible pain on an individual that's done nothing wrong. I'm an atheist I don't believe in prayer but if you do fair enough.

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RSmith1007

When I first read the thread title I was like wtf? But now I understand why you are tempted. I think you need to contact someone about this issue because it can't carry on any longer.

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222rachelxx

Run before its to late

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PinkMobilePhone

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Original post by Anonymous

I can't deal with her anymore. She destroyed me completely, she stripped off my confidence and every motivation I had. She has abused me physically, mentally and verbally. She has called me every name in the book, I can deal with that but she's very religious and always prays to god that my life in the future should be worse than my current life. That my husband and children should die, I should get cancer, I should become a prostitute and have children with different men. She said she will completely destroy me until I commit suicide and has even told me the different ways I should kill myself. At home I should stay in my room since it's my prison, she won't let me go and find a job or anything. She stopped me from playing sports and socialise with anyone. Now whenever I go outside she comes with me, and embarrasses me like such as in a the bank if I do anything slow she will shout at me with her verbal abuse in front of anyone. She shouted at me outside my house on purpose, I hate her so much. I will never hit her because at the end of the day she is my mother and had me for 9 months and gave birth to me and raised me. But I am so close to the day where I will punch her without realising. What can I do to prevent that from happening? Also religious people will her curses come true if she prayed to god? Because in my religion, if a mum says anything apparently it comes true.

Original post by Anonymous

Original post by Xyloid

How old are you and have you considered moving out ?

I'm over 18 and yes I have but she will have none of it. It is not the norm in my culture for a girl to move out without marrying :frown:

Hang on, you just said you had a husband and children? :s-smilie:

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Anonymous #1

Original post by PinkMobilePhone

Hang on, you just said you had a husband and children? :s-smilie:

Sorry I didn't make sense, I meant to say she was cursing about my future husband and children, her future son in law and grandchildren :frown:

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PinkMobilePhone

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Original post by Anonymous

Sorry I didn't make sense, I meant to say she was cursing about my future husband and children, her future son in law and grandchildren :frown:

Oh okay. Sounds like a pretty vicious woman to be honest.

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Anonymous #1

Seriously thank you guys for replying, do you think I should tell my dad what is happening? He has no clue at all, but I don't want to cause problems between my mum and dad.

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lucas13

just leave home, no matter what she says

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Shadoo

Original post by Anonymous

Seriously thank you guys for replying, do you think I should tell my dad what is happening? He has no clue at all, but I don't want to cause problems between my mum and dad.

I think he deserves to know what is happening before you leave but i think you should leave someplace else. If she harasses you that's what a restraining order is for there is no place for this in a modern society

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Meticulous

Original post by Anonymous

Sorry I didn't make sense, I meant to say she was cursing about my future husband and children, her future son in law and grandchildren :frown:

You should defo tell your dad. Deep down your mum loves you, in her own way, and wants the best for you regardless of what she says to you out of anger. Nothing will happen to you id your mum makes those dodgy prayers. It sounds like your mum is going to a difficulty woth something, and she venting, or prehaps you do not fulfill her expectations in terms of obediance etc
She's your mother, no matter what. Have patience with her and solve whatever it is causing her behaviour. Do not do anything you will regret if she was her no longer

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