She doesn't want to talk to me anymore!

Perhaps PM riku for further help?

To be fair this behavior seems genuinely confusing, at least to me.


AT OP:

Blank her, teach her not to be arrogant enough to presume that you must have feelings for her, don't talk to her in real life as much, chat to other women. She needs to be taken down a peg; at the minute her attitude is that you need her but she doesn't need you, and that she is the valuable one in your interactions.

If she comes back, then you can either accept or reject her, depending on whether or not you actually have feelings for her I suppose.

I actually really like her, but I don't have feelings for her. I like her personality because she's very similar to me; I think she would make the perfect friend.

I think that, regardless, you should treat her as she treats you if you want to be equal in the relationship.

I hope you're not her
She treated me very well on the day we started talking more deeply, but then her temperament changed the very next day after unfriending me.

I think I must have accidentally clicked the anonymous thing, that was me.

I am not sure what she's trying to achieve, but I think not sucking up to someone who is disrespecting you is a good policy.

This girl has really confused me. Does anyone have any advice?

Im not surprised she's cut you off tbh. It'd be weird trying to talk to someone as a genuine friend knowing that they have other intentions. Its harsh to say but you screwed up.

She;s the one that initially wrote "I hope we can remain friends".

Friend is such a vague term. It literally applies to anyone who has had some form of contact with you. Close friend is another story.

Im almost certain she said that only so she doesn't sound like a complete *****. No one wants to look like the bad guy. But do you blame her?

Think of it from her point of view. Say you have a girlfriend that you love and don't want to lose. You literally want to spend the rest of your life with her and a girl comes and confesses her feelings for you. Would you not want to completely cut away from this girl in order to prevent anything that could mess you're life up big time?

Theres a high chance that her boyfriend got her to do this, but nonetheless she'd be sensible if she did it on her own accord. She's just looking out for her relationship, and you shouldnt be surprised that shes favoured her boyfriend over you.

Three weeks ago, I randomly started talking to a girl that goes to my college; we started talking as soon as I sat next to her in a cafe at my college. We both enjoyed the conversation, so much so that we added each other on facebook. I started seeing her more regularly at the section of the library that I usually study at; I would chat to her briefly, each time I saw her.

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This girl has really confused me. Does anyone have any advice?

It's quite simple...

She obviously realised you had some kind of chemistry that could turn into something else if you carried on speaking. She has a boyfriend and doesn't want that to happen, has chosen him, and has cut you off. She wants to speak to you if she sees you in person because it's civil and polite. The same way most people, if they dislike someone for example, would speak politely to them in person because that's the mature thing to do.

It's quite clear she doesn't want anything more from you and as she is in a relationship you have to leave it, otherwise you will come off very badly and be painted as the guy chasing after a girl who is taken.

That was not very nice of her I think. If both of you respect your boundaries then what's the worst that could happen? Even Ted is going to Barney and Robin's wedding when he still thinks that Robin is the one for him.