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I watch lots of porn and masturbate lots of time but I get a lot of pleasure from sex.

It could be because of the skills and body of your partner's.

Yeah, but I would guess that you haven't masturbated to porn every day for the past 8 years, as OP claims to have done.

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member403966

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Reply 22

xDave-

Original post by Anonymous

Yeah, but I would guess that you haven't masturbated to porn every day for the past 8 years, as OP claims to have done.

I thought it was pretty normal to do that lol.

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Anonymous #1

Original post by Anonymous

Yeah, but I would guess that you haven't masturbated to porn every day for the past 8 years, as OP claims to have done.

Wouldn't you expect me to have problems getting an erection (which I didn't when having sex)?

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Anonymous #2

Original post by Anonymous

Wouldn't you expect me to have problems getting an erection (which I didn't when having sex)?

To be honest, it is weird that you haven't experienced any kind of erectile dysfunction.

Reply 25

El Salvador

Original post by Anonymous

Yeah, but I would guess that you haven't masturbated to porn every day for the past 8 years, as OP claims to have done.

I should think I did actually. I also started masturbating without knowing what it was before I could ejaculate. Precise time I'm not sure, but as I recall my first experience was as a primary schoolchild who felt very bored doing revisions (never liked it).

Eight years ago I was 16, the year I lost my virginity, and has since then slept with 79 guys and had hundreds of times of sex.

I'm sure I did not masturbate every day for the frequency of sex I had, but I should think I have ejaculated at least 5-6 times per week on average, considering the fact that I have ejaculated 1-5 times in a day.

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Anonymous #3

OP if you're circumcised that may be why as this would remove a lot of the nerves which give pleasure during sex, very is little evidence that watching porn frequently would make sex less pleasurable although from personal experience of masturbation combined with possible effects of circumcision I would guess it would have an effect in the situation of being circumcised and frequently watching porn.

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Anonymous #1

Original post by Anonymous

Yes was circumcised for medical reasons.

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Anonymous #3

Original post by Anonymous

Yes was circumcised for medical reasons.

Then you have your answer, and while limiting the amount of porn you watch and how often you masturbate may have a small effect, unfortunately you will be unable to have achieve normal orgasm, but on the plus side, if it was for medical reasons it could have been a lot worse.

Reply 29

S-man10

Original post by Anonymous

Whilst the foreskin may have many nerves, what is the evidence that it limits the ability to have an orgasm?

(edited 10 years ago)

Reply 30

moonkatt

Original post by Anonymous

What utter rubbish. People who've been circumcised are still able to achieve orgasm just like anyone else.

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Anonymous #1

Original post by moonkatt

What utter rubbish. People who've been circumcised are still able to achieve orgasm just like anyone else.

Yeh, I hope so.

I've been reading around and it sounds like delayed ejaculation. Probably caused by deathgrip masturbation and looking at porn for almost a decade.

http://yourbrainonporn.com/any-suggestions-for-healing-delayed-ejaculation

Reply 32

Anonymous #1

Original post by Anonymous

To be honest, it is weird that you haven't experienced any kind of erectile dysfunction.

Or maybe not:

http://yourbrainonporn.com/any-suggestions-for-healing-delayed-ejaculation

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unprinted

You've been masturbating for years, quite possibly with a hard and fast hand action. That's what you've become used to in terms of physical stimulation and vaginal sex is going to provide something a lot more subtle, especially when using condoms. It can take time to get used to the new sensations, and find them erotic.

Practice.. both in terms of having more vaginal sex and masturbating in ways that are closer to the sensations of partner sex.