He used me for sex!

Well don't assume things. There may be a number of reasons why. Maybe someone in his family dies and he is having trouble dealing with it. You don't know. Ask people he knows if he is ok or see if they can find anything out. If they ignore you or are rude then just move on and stick them onto the list of bad people.

His problem, not yours. Been there, those kind of people are absolutely pathetic and proven to be lacking in the brain department (from my experience) so forget about it, it doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things.

How's communication beforehand? Did he make any promises or whatever? If you weren't then I think you may need to move on.

Are you familiar with "Marlene on the wall" By Suzanne Vega?

Well don't assume things. There may be a number of reasons why. Maybe someone in his family dies and he is having trouble dealing with it. You don't know. Ask people he knows if he is ok or see if they can find anything out. If they ignore you or are rude then just move on and stick them onto the list of bad people.

Inclined to say 'oh please' but how long has he ignored you for OP?

Two possibilities:

1. You're right and he used you, in which case, don't waste time on him! Must be hard for you and I know it's easy for us to tell you to stop talking to him etc, but if he's been using you then the best you can do is get on with your life. We're all here if you need support, otherwise focus on the good stuff in your life, like friends an family. And don't blame yourself! It's pretty easy to fall into a trap like that.

2. He has a genuine reason for not talking to you. Maybe something big has happened to him and he doesn't want to talk to anyone?

Either way, you're probably better off leaving him to it, and if he wants to talk to you again, he will. If not, then you know you're better off without him

Haha think with your head not your pants in future

Inclined to lean more towards point 1 . . seems more logical ! But either way, I am done with it tbh . . a man who does this kinda behaviour to ANY woman is a complete and utter dirt bag!

Bit hard not to assume he's used me for sex, when I've heard bugger all since Friday/Sat morning. Like I said above, I wouldn't even mind if he messaged and said it's not going to work and etc, but to leave things as they are is rude imo. Clearly I am too honest/blunt

I felt his at just gone 8am Saturday moring. I woke him up, said I am going, he reached out for a hug and I kissed him on the cheek before leaving, saying ''See you soon''. I sent a polite message yesterday with general chitchat conversation, as I didn't want to make a whole song and dance about the sex. I didn't want to appear awkward and etc, but clearly it's an issue . . for him

If it is the case you can be angry when that is set in stone and is known. But I repeat. You cannot just assume things. Remove yourself from the equation. See beyond what is known. It could be that you're correct. It could also be a million other things. Think about if you go to him and start accusing him of using you for sex when really the truth of what is happening is something worse for him..say a grand parent died and he is having trouble dealing with it and doesn't want to tell people or burden you with it?...

I don't know. You don't know. Hence wy I said try to find out from friends ect.

If he does speak to you be sure to let him know how insensitive his ignoring you was. Anyway be thankful this guy wasn't obnoxious and shallow to you, as I have experienced.

Very similar thing has just happened to me. Wasn't quite as long as you though. He said similar things to me while seeing him. Makes you feel so stupid, upset, confused and used...Some guys are like that I guess. Think it gives them an ego boost and they don't realise how it makes the other person feel. Try as hard as you can not to let this bother you. I can pretty much guarantee he's not worth feeling crap about