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so nervous im crying advice please

Hi im so nervous im crying please give me advice.im due to start a day of work experience tommorow that the job centre organised just to see how i get on and im feeling so nervous. In nervous incase i mess up and incase the staff aren't very nice.its going to be doing it work and helping the unemployed like me
Reply 1
First of all, You've got to think positively of it all - You will meet new people, nice or not, you will learn about others and how to work as a team! You get to socialise and make money at the same time!
Thinking negatively for the worst outcomes will not help you my dear, It's all going to be okay! Just give it all you've got, and don't forget - be yourself :smile:

P.s Don't cry <3
Reply 2
Sweetie don't be nervous or scared most people are adult and aren't usually unemployed try to be positive u can do this u will do this it's them that need you not you that need them tell yourself this maybe say something nice about yourself increase your confidence a little you will be fine just take deep breaths and try to have some water it will be fine and you will have worried for nothing


Chin-up
Original post by annymonous
Hi im so nervous im crying please give me advice.im due to start a day of work experience tommorow that the job centre organised just to see how i get on and im feeling so nervous. In nervous incase i mess up and incase the staff aren't very nice.its going to be doing it work and helping the unemployed like me
Reply 3
Don't be nervous. :hugs: Be polite and turn up on time, no one will be rude to you.
Calm down

Its only temporary

Tell your manager youre feeling nervous so they will let everyone know that they should be nice to you

Make sure you fully understand what they ask you to do before you start and ask questions if unsure.

Stop crying. Once youre done crying you still have to go, so whats the point? :smile:


Original post by annymonous
Hi im so nervous im crying please give me advice.im due to start a day of work experience tommorow that the job centre organised just to see how i get on and im feeling so nervous. In nervous incase i mess up and incase the staff aren't very nice.its going to be doing it work and helping the unemployed like me
Reply 5
Don't be nervous! What if the staff are really nice and you enjoy it? How many times have you dreaded something but then when you have done it you are kicking yourself for getting so worked up over nothing? I don't know about you but it always happens to me. Don't worry.
Reply 6
Original post by lilypear
First of all, You've got to think positively of it all - You will meet new people, nice or not, you will learn about others and how to work as a team! You get to socialise and make money at the same time!
Thinking negatively for the worst outcomes will not help you my dear, It's all going to be okay! Just give it all you've got, and don't forget - be yourself :smile:

P.s Don't cry <3

thank you so much.i really appreciate your supportive reply.x
Reply 7
Original post by auntumn89
Sweetie don't be nervous or scared most people are adult and aren't usually unemployed try to be positive u can do this u will do this it's them that need you not you that need them tell yourself this maybe say something nice about yourself increase your confidence a little you will be fine just take deep breaths and try to have some water it will be fine and you will have worried for nothing


Chin-up

Thank you so much i really appreciate your supportive reply. X
Reply 8
Original post by LiviL97
Don't be nervous! What if the staff are really nice and you enjoy it? How many times have you dreaded something but then when you have done it you are kicking yourself for getting so worked up over nothing? I don't know about you but it always happens to me. Don't worry.

Thank you so much i really appreciate your supportive reply.lots of time it happened to me yeah lol thank you xx
Reply 9
Original post by Red one
Don't be nervous. :hugs: Be polite and turn up on time, no one will be rude to you.

Thank you so much for your supportive reply really appreciate it.the manager said even though they start at half nine she asked what time my trains are there's one that's gets in 20 minutes before one that's get in ten minutes after she said to get the one that gets in after so not early so not sure what train to get x
Reply 10
Original post by brownbearxo
Calm down

Its only temporary

Tell your manager youre feeling nervous so they will let everyone know that they should be nice to you

Make sure you fully understand what they ask you to do before you start and ask questions if unsure.

Stop crying. Once youre done crying you still have to go, so whats the point? :smile:

Thank you so much for your supportive reply really appreciate it wish could stop crying x
Reply 11
Original post by annymonous
Hi im so nervous im crying please give me advice.im due to start a day of work experience tommorow that the job centre organised just to see how i get on and im feeling so nervous. In nervous incase i mess up and incase the staff aren't very nice.its going to be doing it work and helping the unemployed like me


Is this a first place you've worked at? Do not think about it. Once there just be yourself doing the job, calmly. :smile:

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Reply 12
Original post by SMEGGGY
Is this a first place you've worked at? Do not think about it. Once there just be yourself doing the job, calmly. :smile:

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Thank you .i worked at a care home but it closed down so now unemployed but yeah its my first day tommorow.thank you.
Reply 13
Original post by annymonous
Thank you so much for your supportive reply really appreciate it.the manager said even though they start at half nine she asked what time my trains are there's one that's gets in 20 minutes before one that's get in ten minutes after she said to get the one that gets in after so not early so not sure what train to get x


Obviously get the early one. You say you want to make sure people like you, well being early for your first day, and every day is going to make a bigger impression.
Don't be late for the sake of not wanting to wait 20 minutes for your shift to start.
I guess some people like your manager will already be there, so use your earliness to your advantage. Ask if there's anything that needs to be done, make a great first impression.
Reply 14
Original post by Matt___
Obviously get the early one. You say you want to make sure people like you, well being early for your first day, and every day is going to make a bigger impression.
Don't be late for the sake of not wanting to wait 20 minutes for your shift to start.
I guess some people like your manager will already be there, so use your earliness to your advantage. Ask if there's anything that needs to be done, make a great first impression.


thank you ir get the early one and just say i didn't want to be l
Reply 15
Original post by annymonous
Hi im so nervous im crying please give me advice.im due to start a day of work experience tommorow that the job centre organised just to see how i get on and im feeling so nervous. In nervous incase i mess up and incase the staff aren't very nice.its going to be doing it work and helping the unemployed like me


Hey what type of work is it?

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Reply 16
Original post by Ana81
Hey what type of work is it?

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Hi its computer work and helpful unemployed people

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