Argument with boyfriend

It doesn't sound like you're going to break up. Maybe he's just angry at something else and doesn't want to take it out on you. Don't worry about it


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You shouldn't break up over one argument.
The fact he chose to calm down instead of continuing the argument is a good sign. You'll be fine, he'll probably reply to you in a while.

or you could ring him?

What is it he thinks you've done? And if you haven't done it, why does he think you did? Which brings me to the question of whether or not it's actually you that ought to be annoyed at him rather than the other way around? Give him a little time and space to cool off, then when he is ready to talk you can explain that you've done nothing wrong, talk things through and hopefully end up with an apology rather than a break up. But if he does break up with you over something you didn't do, then perhaps you'd be better off without someone who doesn't trust you.

I know but he said he weren't happy and what he accused me of doing is worthy of a breakup, I told him I would never do that but I have no proof, I get that he's insecure but this is taking it to a whole new level.

He was the one arguing with me, I was trying to be nice to be nice to him.

I want to ring him but I don't know. I've been told to leave it and then people are telling me to contact him, I have no idea what to do.

Do you mind saying what it was that you were doing? It could change what your next course of action is.

Give him a call, texting is bad.

Agreed texting is what caused this whole problem!

I know but he said he weren't happy and what he accused me of doing is worthy of a breakup, I told him I would never do that but I have no proof, I get that he's insecure but this is taking it to a whole new level.

He was the one arguing with me, I was trying to be nice to be nice to him.

I want to ring him but I don't know. I've been told to leave it and then people are telling me to contact him, I have no idea what to do.

If you have no proof that you didn't do it, but in fact didn't do it, surely he can't have proof that you did do it, which in turn in itself is proof that you didn't? Why is he so convinced you did whatever it is?

Hope everything works out ok!

OP - don't call him. He wants his space, that much is clear. You need to give him that at the moment, rather than 'nag' him into communication. A call would be even more of a nag than a simple text, but I advise doing neither, and instead just keeping yourself busy.

Honestly, if you hadn't of said that he was believing something that is definitely false, I would say just give him time and have faith. But if he is telling himself, regardless of what you are saying, that you have done this thing (which I assume is cheating related) then it is another issue. If things are not working already, he could be using this argument and this thing you 'have' done as an excuse to put the relationship into question. If he isn't happy but you are, that still means the relationship isn't working on a level.

Been there before, but don't text him. That was my mistake. If he doesn't want to talk, then just leave it. He'll come around eventually, he probably just needs some space. If he does break up with you over something you didn't do, well then that's his loss.


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How much space is too much? I give him as much space as he needs and probably a lot more as well.

It's not cheating related, I don't know if he believes me or not, he just said he didn't want to talk.

I'm also not happy but I can't give up.