Afraid that my lack of experience with women will ruin everything

Here's the deal - I am very inexperienced with women and I fear that this will cause lots of problems. I am afraid that even if a girl does like me eventually, the fact that I won't know what to do in certain situations will turn her off and she wont like me anymore. Is this true? Maybe you have some personal experience to help me with this?

How am I meant to get relationship experience if my inexperience might not let me get into a relationship in the first place? How harsh are girls anyway on these things?

Very (speaking from experience).

Your only hope is to get out there, get some experience, fail with some girls and then you can start succeeding.

Experience, or lack thereof, isn't an important factor when I decide whether or not I want to enter a relationship...I think it's the genuineness of the person that I would take into consideration

Here's the deal - I am very inexperienced with women and I fear that this will cause lots of problems. I am afraid that even if a girl does like me eventually, the fact that I won't know what to do in certain situations will turn her off and she wont like me anymore. Is this true? Maybe you have some personal experience to help me with this?

How am I meant to get relationship experience if my inexperience might not let me get into a relationship in the first place? How harsh are girls anyway on these things?

Very (speaking from experience).

Your only hope is to get out there, get some experience, fail with some girls and then you can start succeeding.

Here's the deal - I am very inexperienced with women and I fear that this will cause lots of problems. I am afraid that even if a girl does like me eventually, the fact that I won't know what to do in certain situations will turn her off and she wont like me anymore. Is this true? Maybe you have some personal experience to help me with this?

How am I meant to get relationship experience if my inexperience might not let me get into a relationship in the first place? How harsh are girls anyway on these things?

Watch porn

Replicate, but more vigorously, and with less heroin in your system.

Well, that was brutal...

For one thing OP, it's not like all girls have loads of experience with guys. Given that similar people are more likely to like each other (to an extent), it's quite possible that you could end up in a relationship with somebody else who doesn't have much/any experience. In which case, looking down on you for it would be hypocritical to say the least.

I would also say that the more you worry about it, the more likely it is to be an issue. Easier said than done, but try to put it out of your mind and just act normally with girls. There are definitely girls out there who wouldn't find inexperience a problem as long as you were mature about it and these are the kind of girls who will want to start relationships with you anyway

Well I've had SOME experience with this very shy and inexperienced girl and the thing is, I understood that when there are 2 really shy people then it's tough for something to happen. Rule of thumb - it's better to have at least 1 person in the relationship to be more assertive. That's usually the guy...

You gotta work hard to catch up buddy. You gotta put the hours in.

Yeah that's one way to look at it.

Don't just stand there man, get out there and talk to some girls. Ask them if they like darts.

Why darts? So specific.

Catch 22. Need sexual experience but cant get any without past sexual experience.

Just lie if it ever came up. She will find out since you will be crap in bed but who cares? You would now have real experience and wouldnt have to lie anymore plus you will be better at things.

That sounds very similar to job hunting.

That sounds very similar to job hunting.

You have job internships, work experience and so on, you can get by. There ain't no 'women internships'.