I Have Commitment Issues

You know that you should stop cheating on girls. You feel guilty and that's why you posted. Instead of cheating all the time, you should find casual relationships, find girls that want something casual like you, otherwise you are just deceiving them and making them believe you want a long relationship when you don't. And that is just stupid and makes them sad and you kind of guilty and miserable.

You can't make yourself want to commit, just be honest with what you want and have fwb or whatever instead of lying and manipulating and cheating. Be happy in your own skin and accept that you're not ready to commit yet, find girls that want the same thing as you. Eventually you'll become comfortable with yourself and then you can work from there.

tell them from the beginning you're looking for nothing serious, and have commitement issues.

Then the girls that just want sex ( and there are many ) will stay and the sensitive ones that usually end up getting hurt will leave.

listen mate you got a problem?

prick like behaviour? i didnt come here to get a life lesson, especially from someone like you. why are you acting like a big d*** on the internet? ive met enough guys like you, scared im gonna take your girlfriend?

trust me ive met a lot of insecure guys like you. noone is trying to prove they are 'da man', this is the internet mate, if you wanna show your a man, prove it.




Believe it or not, this aint about sex. Im not one of those crazy sex maniacs who are thirsty night and day.

I dont go out with waste gash, seriously, I like spending time with girls who are good looking and do things like read books.

I actually ask girls how their day has been, i'd like to think maybe im a decent kind of guy, caring, funny and considerate. BUT i do hate it when girls start crying for whatever reason, its so awkward, your sitting there and they dont stop jeez.

Actually, I'm a girl. One who has come across many guys like you.
You behave the way you do; hurt the girls and make them cry the way that you do because you can; because it makes you feel like 'da man', you enjoy it. You can brag about it to your mates. What's more, you will cry like a girl and bleat about bitch women the first time one does it to you. I've seen it.
You know the way to stop this, to stop cheating on every girl you date?
Finish with one before you take up with the next one. It isn't difficult, it isn't rocket science, but it might make you feel less excited because it won't be 'forbidden'.
if you really think that you are a decent kind of guy despite the fact that you cheat on every girl you've ever gone out with, then kudos to you. Ignorance is bliss as they say.
Strange thing is, girls cry when they get treated like just another bit of gash by someone they thought genuinely liked them, betrayal is painful. I hope you discover this, maybe then you will learn.

Please can we not argue or insult each other, thanks.

I dont think its my fault, so many girls just press up on a guy without knowing if hes taken or not, e.g. this girl came in and left me her number the other day, she said text me yeah, she didnt ask if i had a girl or not, so you tell me whos fault is that? So many times Ive been talking to a girl, then her FRIEND comes upto me and says 'o you do know shes got a boyfriend'. So yeah carry on blaming me if that makes you feel better.

Your a girl but you speak so violently i was a bit surprised. You dont know me yet you think im this nasty evil guy, im sure if you got to know me youd think differently, apart from one or 2 things im a decent genuine guy, someone you can trust and be yourself around.

I dont think its my fault, so many girls just press up on a guy without knowing if hes taken or not, e.g. this girl came in and left me her number the other day, she said text me yeah, she didnt ask if i had a girl or not, so you tell me whos fault is that? So many times Ive been talking to a girl, then her FRIEND comes upto me and says 'o you do know shes got a boyfriend'. So yeah carry on blaming me if that makes you feel better.

And no i dont actually do it to brag about with my mates, me and my mates used to compete to see how many we could pull before but not now. I enjoy that feeling of thinking 'does she like me or not', and once I know she does it feels nice, and i feel really loved and appreciated. If i dont meet new girls, i start getting depressed after a week.

im sorry if guys have messed you about in the past, but believe me they wernt nothing like me.



she started it.

Your a girl but you speak so violently i was a bit surprised. You dont know me yet you think im this nasty evil guy, im sure if you got to know me youd think differently, apart from one or 2 things im a decent genuine guy, someone you can trust and be yourself around.

Do you honestly think you`re trustworthy despite cheating numerous times on numerous partners? If you do then you`re seriously deluding yourself.

I dont think its my fault, so many girls just press up on a guy without knowing if hes taken or not, e.g. this girl came in and left me her number the other day, she said text me yeah, she didnt ask if i had a girl or not, so you tell me whos fault is that? So many times Ive been talking to a girl, then her FRIEND comes upto me and says 'o you do know shes got a boyfriend'. So yeah carry on blaming me if that makes you feel better.

That`s just pathetic. Who else is to blame - did they fall and just happen to land naked on your dick? YOU made the decision to have sex with someone behind your girlfriends back. YOU - no-one else.