is Sex a conspiracy?

Okay, Hear me out. I probably sound very naive and crazy but ...
I feel like sex is a conspiracy. What I mean is, I think/know sex feels good for men, but for women I feel like doesn't'. I can't figure out how being penetrated would feel good? They say the vagina has less nerves than the clit, so that's why most women don't ever climax penetratively (?!)
So women will say it was great just to save face, so then the next woman will say the same thing to upstage her friend henceforth a cycle and no-woman really enjoys penetrative sex. A conspiracy.
I'm 17 year old female, virgin who masturbates it feels amazing (the shame, girls don't like to admit that :colondollar:

),

So question is sex as great for a woman as it is portrayed on TV/movies/books, porn (I know porn pleasure is highly exaggerated), my neighbours have outrageously loud sex, unless sex is truly is great or she deserves an Oscar for that performance. Since majority of woman don't climax through penetration how is sex even good? in comparison to clitoris simulation?

- If that was any way coherent -
-don't be too harsh in the replies :colondollar:

Reply 1

Shefflibs

2

Being a woman, in my experience sex does feel good even if you don't climax. Although being penetrated sounds like it would be unpleasant, it's not like it is painful- it feels good. I have never orgasmed through 'normal' sex, but I have during foreplay and through oral, a lot of my friends are the same. However penetrative sex is amazing as it can make you feel closer to someone, and there is nothing quite like it :wink:

there are also positions where they can stimulate the clit at the same time, its not a competition between all of the sexual parts, its working together. Part of the fun is exploring what feels good, but yeah don't worry, women can very much enjoy sex! When the time is right and you are ready then you will see :smile:

real sex isn't like the movies or porn though really :P

Reply 2

username1060288

6

I used to feel like this but then I read the book 'healing sex' and it helped things get rearranged in my head. Then I went on to have sex and found it v enjoyable. A large part of it is exploring what feels good and also what feels good to the other person (works both ways: male to female, female to male). I would suggest not letting yourself be exposed to people, materials, videos that imply that the act is only for the mans benefit...that's not usually how it works. If you imagine how good what you do to yourself feels and then imagine someone who cares for you trying to replicate that...that's more close to what it would be like in a relationship :smile:

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Reply 3

Anonymous #2

It's hard to explain but although I simulate my clit when masturbate, I enjoy penetrative sex with my boyfriend. The opening of he vagina has quite a few nerve endings and there is also the G-spot and like the above poster said the clit can also be stimulated depending on the position.

Reply 4

Robbie242

The US government is on it.

Illuminati.

I disagree though, clearly many women enjoy it, even the feminists

Also how do you know if you've never tried it?

Debunked.

(edited 10 years ago)

Reply 5

Tyrion_Lannister

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Original post by Robbie242

The US government is on it.

Illuminati.

I disagree though, clearly many women enjoy it, even the feminists

Ilubeinati.

OP no sex does feel good for women . G spot n dat

Reply 6

beautifulbigmacs

19

Not everyone enjoys penetrative sex and that's ok.

Reply 7

Welsh Bluebird

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Original post by Tyrion_Lannister

Ilubeinati.

OP no sex does feel good for women . G spot n dat

iPubeinati - a new Apple device that attaches to your pubic hair to track you via GPS.

No seriously though OP, I think you may have lost the plot. You sound like someone from Reddit.

:lol:

Don't breed. Ever.

Hi I am a virgin and have never had sex, but that does not prevent me from having a strong opinion on sex.

Replicate 1,000,000 times.

Add a pinch of feminism, a dash of misogyny and lashings of self pity, and voila,

you have made your very own TSR!

Reply 10

Hellcat12

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Original post by Anonymous

Okay, Hear me out. I probably sound very naive and crazy but ...
I feel like sex is a conspiracy. What I mean is, I think/know sex feels good for men, but for women I feel like doesn't'. I can't figure out how being penetrated would feel good? They say the vagina has less nerves than the clit, so that's why most women don't ever climax penetratively (?!)
So women will say it was great just to save face, so then the next woman will say the same thing to upstage her friend henceforth a cycle and no-woman really enjoys penetrative sex. A conspiracy.
I'm 17 year old female, virgin who masturbates it feels amazing (the shame, girls don't like to admit that :colondollar:

),

So question is sex as great for a woman as it is portrayed on TV/movies/books, porn (I know porn pleasure is highly exaggerated), my neighbours have outrageously loud sex, unless sex is truly is great or she deserves an Oscar for that performance. Since majority of woman don't climax through penetration how is sex even good? in comparison to clitoris simulation?

- If that was any way coherent -
-don't be too harsh in the replies :colondollar:

I don't know how to react to the statements here, I am totally inexperienced when it comes to any form of sex, masturbating, visual porn etc.
As far as I have read in novels and seen or heard glimpses, I think it is enjoyable, might be an act, I don't know. The concept of, "Having him inside me", makes it thrilling and stimulates more pleasure, perhaps.

I just don't understand the reason behind all that loud screaming and moans, (Made a mistake of staying in my friend's flat and she and her boyfriend started the contest of Banshee Wails and Seizures, it could have been to show off their intimacy, to my ears and imagination. Being the judge, I think the girl won in scaring the hell out of me).

Reply 11

xDave-

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I don't believe sex is even real personally, never seen any proof. All that stuff on the net is computer generated; it's like you said, a conspiracy.

Reply 12

El Salvador

21

Oh obviously it's a conspiracy. Women have just been trying to rule the world.

Reply 13

Eveiebaby

12

OP, perhaps you won't like it but the odds are that you will.
It is possible to stimulate the clitoris while the penetration is going on. And that is double amazing.
No conspiracy. It's for real.
I do feel that some women over play the vocal dramatics though.

Reply 14

Anonymous #3

Is it just me who when they masturbate doesn't just focus on the clitorios?
I often use the whole of the vagina and I can orgasam just as well - if not better.

I think dildos are proof that most women do enjoy penetration.

Original post by Hellcat12

I just don't understand the reason behind all that loud screaming and moans

When sex feels so good you feel like moaning, it's not controllable sometimes.

Reply 15

Hellcat12

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Original post by xDave-

I don't believe sex is even real personally, never seen any proof. All that stuff on the net is computer generated; it's like you said, a conspiracy.

Virgin Syndrome? :giggle:

Reply 16

Zarek

21

There must be some reason girls are generally up for it. My experience is intercourse is nearly as good for girls, even though you might not think it would be.

Reply 17

Chihiro95

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Original post by Zarek

There must be some reason girls are generally up for it. My experience is intercourse is nearly as good for girls, even though you might not think it would be.

I highly doubt it's anywhere near as good for girls as it is for guys. The actual stimulation doesn't feel that great, it's more the idea of being that close to someone and giving someone you love pleasure. It's more enjoyable when a man actually knows his way around the clit. Of course there are anomalies.

Reply 18

Zarek

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Original post by Chihiro95

I highly doubt it's anywhere near as good for girls as it is for guys. The actual stimulation doesn't feel that great, it's more the idea of being that close to someone and giving someone you love pleasure. It's more enjoyable when a man actually knows his way around the clit. Of course there are anomalies.

As a female you speak with more authority than me. I have empathy with OPs sentiments and have been surprised by how enthusiastic gfs and female friends are about the going the whole way when foreplay is more directly pleasurable.

Reply 19

Lamptastic

14

LOL- a conspiracy?

Every woman and man is different in terms of what they enjoy and how much and yes it is generally true that a good majority of women cannot orgasm through penetrative sex alone. That does not mean that penetrative sex cannot be enjoyable, there are more nerve endings in the first couple of inches in the vagina so those men with a bit more girth can give a girl a damn good time.

Different positions can get a woman to pleasure kingdom through hitting the G spot or to orgasm by getting her clit stimulated at the same time either by position (girl on top) or by using hands.

Personally I enjoy penetrative sex but it's a different kind of pleasure than oral or manual clitoral stimulation and hitting the G spot feels different to general vaginal stimulation. It all feels good to me, just in different ways.

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