He hasn't done anything wrong, I suppose I just find it hard to deal with sometimes.
He is generally considered attractive by women; I'm not boasting or anything like that, because looks really aren't everything, I'm just saying that because of how women have acted towards him in the 2 years we've been together.
He had a few short-term girlfriends before me, and one long-term one. He was also good friends with some females (he still is, but with different ones now, and he generally gets on well with girls)
He told me how he made out with so many girls as a teenager, and while he hasn't slept with many girls, he's always had a lot interested in him. When I started getting to know him, and then dating, there were maybe 3 girls at that point who were apparently acting weird with him, and when they found out about me, 2 of them stopped talking to him.
He told me one of his good friends from school was always flirting with him and stuff, but then eventually got a boyfriend.
A couple of girls in his uni course said he was good-looking, and one of them even wrote 'Happy birthday handsome' on his wall, knowing he he had a girlfriend.
Now he works with a lot of girls, and I know he is good friends with them. I trust him to not do anything, he would not be with me or be living with me if he wanted one of them. It's just that these girls need to back off sometimes, in my opinion.
One of them, who's a good friend of his, said he was 'so good-looking'. (She does seem friendly and they talk about me and stuff apparently) and another said he was handsome, and how much she likes him. Every time he has a haircut or a new outfit/shoes, you'd think he had discovered world peace or something, they are always telling him how much they love the hair/shirt etc. every single one of them, teasing him etc.
This is the thing that really got me though. The other day, one of them (he won't tell me which) told him that he looked sexy. I tried to make a joke of it but I was fuming. Saying someone is good-looking is fine, but sexy, when they are taken, is bang out of order in my opinion.
I haven't said anything about it, because I don't want to come across jealous (I have done in the past) but I just find it hard dealing with all of the girls. He is very intelligent, funny, doing well in his job, and I know he is with me, but I wonder if these girls are just waiting for us to break up.
Sometimes we go out and girls just stare at him, even when they see me with him. I want to belt them to be honest. Even my friends have stared at him before.
I'm not someone who receives a lot of attention from guys and so I couldn't tell you how he is in this situation. I know all of this because he tells me btw.
But when I suggested (in a sort of jokey way) that they all wanted him, he told me I was being silly.
I would just like to have any advice on how to deal with this? Thanks so much.