He doesn't love me anymore

"This is so upsetting and it's coincided with me having a big issue with my health at the moment and my dissertation deadline coming up."

Are you under 25?

You need to have a proper talk with him about what's changed etc, and call off this relationship. And don't contact him - it'll give you time to try to deal with if, and if he was just confused about his feelings then it'll give him space to realise he misses you.

Damn that's cold, I mean I guess honesty is the best policy and all that but...ouch. I'd move on tbh, even if he goes back on it, it's been said, so it must be on his mind. Even if you're okay for another few months, it'll just re-surface.

That must of been really hard to hear, I'm so sorry sweetie! You've just got to keep your mind on the fact that he cared enough about you to not lie to you. It can't have been easy for him either, and you will get through it!

You should ask him to tell you why, and then try to move on.

Message me if you need a chat, been through something similar recently myself xx

I hate the way he has just come out with it for you. Were there no warning signs?! I don't get it , especially if he has been nice and things going well these last few weeks.

Talk to him, but if it doesn't work, then I wish you all the best!

He's normally so sweet and considerate, I was really shocked at how he could suddenly be so cold. I ended up walking home crying at midnight through a really really rough neighbourhood and I was actually really upset that he didn't even text to make sure I got home safe (is that a bit selfish or needy? I don't know).

Thank you so much, I'll message you if I need a chat



I was so shocked! It was totally out of the blue, absolutely no warning signs. Literally the day before it happened he was making plans with me to do stuff with his friends this weekend, trying to time when he was going to drive home for Easter based on when I was going, booking us tickets to go see some music stuff next week etc. So confusing.

Try to stop paying him the attention! Success is the best revenge, better yourself and he will be kicking himself!

Why does OP need to take revenge? He was honest with her.


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Well he acted as though everything was fine up until that night so obviously their was some sort of miscommunication and not comeplete honesty. She also never got a reason or an explanation which is unfair how do you know he's been completely honest with her? And no matter how someone does a break up it will upset you, you can't say that if someone broke up with you and it hurt you that you wouldn't have got just a little satisfaction of bettering yourself and them thinking why did I break up with you?
I'm not saying go back out with him, or humiliate him I'm saying better yourself you'll feel better(making good out what seems to be a unhappy situation) and he might have a slight second thought and that thought is reasonable revenge for upsetting her.

You're acting as though I've told her to win him back and do the same thing to him or cheat on him or ruin his next relationship or humiliate him. I have just said to better herself to make herself feel better to put a positive spin on things I haven't suggested something that will necessarily get back at him but make him question his break up with her for a second! It isn't going to purposely hurt him or anything and it wouldn't be focussing on him he will just obviously have a reaction towards her success he's bound to cause he still cares about her right. This happens with practically every break up, one of them or both put their energy in themselves and try to feel better about an upsetting situation and it's common it's nothing drastic. I'm not saying get the success and shove it in his face and make him feel bad but he's Bound to hear it off someone isn't he and then he will know that she has moved on and it hasn't broke her but that she is a positive person