Started to communicate with my old primary school crush

I Stumbled upon her facebook and I realized something.

Im still attracted to her.I requested that she add me but for about 3-4 months I got no reply(i told her it was me,tried to make a joke but i think that unimpressed her) until one day she just added me(at the start of april 2014)

1.In primary school everyone knew I had a crush on her somehow.They tried to play matchmaker and I think she didnt like that idea at all.

2.She came up to me whilst I was playing football and said"I don't like you ya know" than she kinda acted like nothing happened no idea why

3.In previous years my class teased us about getting married in the future.I didn't take any notice.

4.In year 8 she told a boy from my school my name and he asked me "is she your wifey/girlfriend"

5. I'm pretty shy around girls and she comforted me 1 time wen my class shouted insults at me for ruining their game.

6.In year 11(current year) I stumbled upon her FB and now have no idea what to do? Suggestions?

7.We used to go home together on the same bus,we talked sometimes.My mum and dad are really keen on her-no idea what exactly has triggered this,maybe me and her hugged or something.

8.During primary school i didn't really get a chance to interact with my friends and go to their birthday partys because of my mum claiming that she didnt know their parents...still does this for like the past 5 years of my secondary school life-i feel so inept when it comes to socialising with girls because of this.NVM straying offtrack.

According to her FB profile she single.

Am i chasing a lost dream?

I gave her my number said she could add me on whatsapp if she wanted to,she replied "okay then" and i replied "kl".

Where should i go from here?

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Reply 1

the bear

awww this is really sweet ! ask her out !

Reply 2

LightBlueSoldier

Just ask her out.

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Reply 3

m93100

Aww this is really adorable! Just talk to her like you are making friends and then take it from there. But don't make it too obvious, act mysterious. Good luck, OP!

Reply 4

2ndtimeuniboy

Ask her out. I regret not getting a chance to see my childhood crush again :/

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Reply 5

scrawlx101

I havent seen her for 5 years...we went to diff schools so she could have changed big time.What does she men when she says "okay then" after i messaged her my number and asked her to add me if she wants????
Scared rlto ask her out+exams r around the corner i would get distracted by her and likewise if anything hapoened between us

Reply 6

LightBlueSoldier

Original post by scrawlx101

Life is about juggling multiple responsibilities. If you want her you should seize the moment.

She means exactly what she said. Be patient.

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Reply 7

Inazuma

Awh I had this, I connected with a primary school crush, apparently we were even 'married' when in like year 4!
We stayed up all night talking a few times, I don't think he was that interested though :tongue:

not my type now I think, but it was fun!
Why not?

Reply 8

scrawlx101

What does she mean by okay then? Shes busy or something? Curious thinking about asking her out after exams;one prob how xactly am i going to do it?my mum will make a v big fuss if she knows.
Prob 2-dont kniw if shes single or not really.....
Help?

Reply 9

LightBlueSoldier

Original post by scrawlx101

You are required to speak in English on this forum. Other languages aren't allowed.

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Reply 10

WanderingWorrier

*cough*GCSEs*cough*

But sure, go for it!

Reply 11

scrawlx101

Original post by LightBlueSoldier

You are required to speak in English on this forum. Other languages aren't allowed.

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What does she mean by "okay then"?

Shes busy or something? Curious.Im thinking about asking her out after exams;one problem is how exactly am i going to do it? my mum will make a very big fuss if she knows via teasing me.

Problen 2-dont kniw if shes single or not really.....checked her profile,nothing to do with her marial status.

Help?

Anyone?

Someone on another forum said this:
My friend she was trying to let you know that she doesn't like you in that way sadly. The most you can do is be friends with her unless SHE wants to be with you.

Don't get attached. Try to STAY AWAY FROM HER. It may be tough. VERY tough. But EVENTUALLY you will pull through

thoughts agree/disagree

Reply 14

MidnightDream

Nawwwh soo cwuuuute :smile:

Ask her out OP you may regret not doing so (though you may want to wait until exams are over) good luck :smile:

Reply 15

scrawlx101

Original post by MidnightDream

Nawwwh soo cwuuuute :smile:

Ask her out OP you may regret not doing so (though you may want to wait until exams are over) good luck :smile:

wat did she mean by"okay then"?

Reply 16

MidnightDream

Original post by scrawlx101

wat did she mean by"okay then"?

She'll add you on whatsapp? :smile:

Reply 17

EmpireofRome

"OK THEN" IS A BAD SIGN. ITS **** CONVERSATION AND IF A GIRL SAID THAT TO ME I'D NEVER SPEAK TO THEM AGAIN, ITS LAZY.

HOWEVER YOU SEEM QUITE INTENT ON THIS SO LIKE EVERYONE ELSE I'D SAY ASK HER OUT, BUT BE PREPARED.

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