Priorities changing

"I have to be honest with myself too with this. I have to admit, I am a promiscuous guy. I am 22 and I really like women, I am not attracted to older women (30+, even late 20's), I like younger girls/women from 17-23.
And yes, I don't want to look for serious relationships, I am interested in fun and sex.

I am dreading getting older, when my looks will fade most probably in my late 30's I will not be able to casually date the girls I am attracted to anymore. I am 23 next month and I hate the idea of getting older.

I know you will probably think "You just have not met the right one yet" or "You will change", but I honestly don't think I will. It is not about 'growing up' but more the type of personality I have.

It is also not the fact that I cannot hold good relationships with women older and in the same age group. I can do that just fine, but for me it is not fulfilling. I just don't feel that same raw feeling of wanting to dominate the girl sexually (if that makes sense).

I won't lie, I will probably use escorts when I get into my mid 30's, when the younger girls are not interested anymore. But, you know, I just feel like time is slipping by and I always compulsively try to get with as many girls as possible (I know, it is promiscuous) because I know I won't be able to when i get older.


Is this really more unacceptable to society than other modern accepted forms of relationship arrangements?"

Your post are starting to make me think you're gay

don't be gay.


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Edit: I fear for you brah.

I am in love with the catholic girl still but the relationship basically went down the sink yesterday. My thoughts may just be a bit irrational, but i don't care about other girls anymore and i realise how empty the whole "pulling new girls" scene is for me these days, i don't care anymore.

Durham, you could have PM'd me you know I'm easy to talk to!

Don't worry, I have not completely lost my marbles. Just feel like i have changed and this girl has made me realise how much of a grown child i have been. I have lost her and it was my fault , but i know i have to grow up now basically.

I've been like that since I was 16. . I've never seen the appeal in a ONS or going out on the pull tbh. I've been out with mates who have been, and once (post breakup with my ex of 3 years), I had a ONS. She was good looking and we got on at the club but I didn't feel very good about the whole thing the next day.

Nothing wrong with the way you feel mate. From what I've noticed, some of my mates are changing in this way too. Its a part of "growing up" I guess...there's nothing wrong with you at all.

FWB/relationship sex is far better anyway in my experience.

I don't really believe in FWB, they never work out well. As for ONS, aside from the ego boost, it's just empty.

Don't worry, I have not completely lost my marbles. Just feel like i have changed and this girl has made me realise how much of a grown child i have been. I have lost her and it was my fault , but i know i have to grow up now basically.

Why don't you sit her down and speak to her, tell her what you're worried about. Trust me, communication is the key to a successful relationship no matter what you have done/or are currently doing. Did she tell you anything that seems to be bothering you? Or did she just get up and walk away?