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How do you like to socialise?

I mean I'm quite anxious and I suppose this can be partial to some social anxiety as I can't go on dates anymore. I also don't like generally going to parties clubs pubs or though I will on a VERY occasional basis my friends only do this occasionally it I must go once every 4 months because I seriously don't enjoy it anymore. When I go to clubs I have to get drunk beforehand these days. I used to go clubbing every week when I was younger but I was a lot more confident back then. I hate parties because you can't get drunk as people will frown on you for it and it means mingling and as I'm not very talkative can be quite awkward. So I tend to avoid parties all together even if it does involve just friends and friends of friends. I don't like to reconnect with old friends as I'm a lot different from school I'm a lot more introverted and shy don't ask me why because I really don't want to get into it. I do play football twice a week with mainly people I met through the club and a couple of friends also. That is about all I do on the social side of things. Obviously I do other things sometimes such as cinema or pool club but my mission is to get a girlfriend or should I say mission impossible. I don't get my self into situations where I can mingle and meet new people and I don't like getting out of my comfort zone. You could say I was good enough to join a football team but this was thanks to a friend that introduced me to it but of course there's no women to meet there so it doesn't help me in that department. Is there anything I could do to get me surrounded by girls who are open to making new friends?
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I don't. I roll alone. Lone wolf for life.

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