Does your Interest Level in your man decrease when...

I have a life I just handle stress poorly and then perpetrate the TRUTH that people are laughing at me because for being weak cowardly pathetic and spineless losing sleep over finals etc.

I think your problem is going to be general trust issues. No way I'd wanna date someone who thinks I am going to cheat. Its not the way to treat anyone, making them feel guilty about something they havn't even done/might never even consider doing

You think your having a tough time? I've spent the last two weeks dealing with the attempted suicides of two of my closest friends and a bunch of ****ty student politics that have resulted in someone getting arrested. I have had to be on call 24/7 and am utterly exhausted. Oh, and I have finals too to deal with...

If people are laughing at you, it's their problem, not yours. Ignore them, suck it up and get on with it. Life is too short to require other peoples validation for everything. Be your own person - not someone elses.

What can I do? My mum had intentions to cheat on my dad-I was told YESTERDAY but wondered it for a year or do after they split. Combined with me finding a lot of manospheric articles in the middle of an episode of paranoia and before I know it her besy guy friend os the new guy in my head

You think your having a tough time? I've spent the last two weeks dealing with the attempted suicides of two of my closest friends and a bunch of ****ty student politics that have resulted in someone getting arrested. I have had to be on call 24/7 and am utterly exhausted. Oh, and I have finals too to deal with...

If people are laughing at you, it's their problem, not yours. Ignore them, suck it up and get on with it. Life is too short to require other peoples validation for everything. Be your own person - not someone elses.

Not his fault society has conditioned him to think that way.

It's also true anyway, men will get called cowards, not a real man, acts like a girl etc. by women if they deviate too far from the stereotype. Have heard it a lot from my female friends complaining about boyfriends etc. Mother has said stuff like that to my Dad before as well.

You seem to have a very warped view of the world and you can't just keep making such sweeping statements

Please ignore my previous posts.

I've just read through the rest of the thread: clearly you are either deliberately winding us all up or you are genuinely beyond all reasonable argument.

Not his fault society has conditioned him to think that way.

It's also true anyway, men will get called cowards, not a real man, acts like a girl etc. by women if they deviate too far from the stereotype. Have heard it a lot from my female friends complaining about boyfriends etc. Mother has said stuff like that to my Dad before as well.

Thinking woman are only into macho men kinda makes them seem shallow and driven only by their biology. Which I personally find offensive. He also mentions that if a man shows their "human side" a woman will cheat, which is also pretty offensive to a woman.

It's not biology, it's social conditioning. Men
'S social value thus atttaction is primarily determined by ability to cope under pressure

It depends I quite like giving advice and helping people out (and I'm quite awesome at it if I do say so myself ) a real man doesn't mean you have to do everything on your own, a real man would know when he does need help and would ask That said if he really is 100% dependent and can't do anything on his own I would lose interest but then that's pretty much my attitude to anyone to be honest

Bruv, stop making threads man, it's unhealthy for you!

Is your friend called Ben Sullivan by any chance?


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I'm sorry to hear that man :-/
Actually I am judging myself as being weak for losing sleep over finals which should be easy. It just isn't because my adrenals are on overload (read:emotionally weak) I fon't think I have tons to deal with.
I hope you get to claim extenuating circumstances dude, the uni will be sympathetic.

If I was a mod I'd ban you just to help you out.

No. I like it when my boyfriend comes to me for advice or wants my help; it shows me that he values my opinion and that he needs me. What's the point of him being with me if he wants to just do everything by himself?

He exhibits any sign of lacking 100% independence? For example, when he comes to you for help with a problem, or confides a feeling?
I mean real men handle anything solo right?

You really need to stop making these kinds of threads and go and get yourself a life. If I was a mod I'd ban you just to help you out. I don't think there's anyone more pathetic on TSR

He exhibits any sign of lacking 100% independence? For example, when he comes to you for help with a problem, or confides a feeling?
I mean real men handle anything solo right?