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Why you should stop watching porn.

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Original post by lovelypony
I don't have issues? I have a right to say what I think as well, I think if the tables were turned you would understand. I don't see myself and other women as targets? I'm simply saying that the attitudes towards women generally are not good and I think that the media etc portray women as objects. Have you ever been sexually assaulted in public? Have you ever been beeped at and shouted at in the street because someone likes the way you look? No I thought not. Generally women are not respected the way men are. Personally I don't think a topless man on a bag is much of a big deal because men don't get the same disrespect in all other parts of life.


I didn't say you did. I understand what you're saying but I don't agree with what you're saying or at least to the degree you're exaggerating it. I don't agree with that. I think the media portray women equally to men its just that certain feminists aren't happy that we're on the same level (my opinion). And who told you that I haven't been sexually assaulted in public? I think that's very ignorant of you because that definitely isn't true. I know of more men/guys who are victims of sexual assault than women so don't jump to conclusions just because its never reported. Its these stigmas that form your opinions and tbh I don't blame you - my female friends are exactly the same.
Very feminist of you to think that. Because it doesn't involve women, its okay..
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Original post by Anonymοοse
So is gay porn okay? Are you only against women being degraded on camera?


i was just about to post this (I thought I'd check every post just so I don't repeat someone :lol: )

She obviously just cares about women in this case. Because all that can be said about men in gay porn but she just cares about women.
Porn is vile and disgusting. It should be illegal


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Original post by JordanS94
i was just about to post this (I thought I'd check every post just so I don't repeat someone :lol: )

She obviously just cares about women in this case. Because all that can be said about men in gay porn but she just cares about women.


Coz women are the ones being abused in porn


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Original post by Red one

How can they get better sex education when you're promoting unhealthy body images for both boys and girls which counteract any amount of education schools can provide?


It doesn't promote that at all, the overwhelming trend in porn these days is for amateur girl next door types. Then there's specialist sites for ethnicities/chubby girls etc. The body images in porn are far more 'normal' than those in the fashion industry, which is run mainly by women and gay men.
So it's OK if I watch gay porn?
plenty of women watch porn too :rolleyes:
Also stfu about it promoting unrealistic body images.

Have you not heard of BBWs? Also, i've seen plenty of flat chested chicks in porn too. I've seen girls of all colours, sizes and ages in porn as well as men.
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Original post by brownsugar-xx
Also stfu about it promoting unrealistic body images.

Have you not heard of BBWs? Also, i've seen plenty of flat chested chicks in porn too. I've seen girls of all colours, sizes and ages in porn as well as men.

Instead of swearing about nothing, what is your point?

Original post by brownsugar-xx
plenty of women watch porn too :rolleyes:


Not as much as men.
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Number 3 is an absolutely ridiculous claim (not that the others aren't). You're a bloody idiot if you believe that.
For all the posters who seem to want to validate themselves that it is a choice for these women to enter the world of porn acting, I have to mention that a lot of the actresses are often in a state of vulnerability, young and often come from underpriviledgedand troubled backgrounds. These "choices" are made out of desperation and these young girls are often pressured to carry out sex acts that they're not really comfortable with but have to do because of the money.
I don't want to demonise all porn, I watch very, very select porn (Dane Jones and other more sensual, gentle porn) but I avoid like the plague about the stuff that is blatantly humiliating, dehumanising and rough. If it looks painful, it most likely is.

it's a real ethical concern the particularly dominating, rough and "whore treatment" of women in porn which seems to be popular with more men than women. I don't get that fantasy - get a kick out of 'putting women in their place' and asserting your dominance the only way of validating masculinity? It's so utterly pathetic.
Original post by Eveiebaby
For all the posters who seem to want to validate themselves that it is a choice for these women to enter the world of porn acting, I have to mention that a lot of the actresses are often in a state of vulnerability, young and often come from underpriviledgedand troubled backgrounds. These "choices" are made out of desperation and these young girls are often pressured to carry out sex acts that they're not really comfortable with but have to do because of the money.
I don't want to demonise all porn, I watch very, very select porn (Dane Jones and other more sensual, gentle porn) but I avoid like the plague about the stuff that is blatantly humiliating, dehumanising and rough. If it looks painful, it most likely is.

it's a real ethical concern the particularly dominating, rough and "whore treatment" of women in porn which seems to be popular with more men than women. I don't get that fantasy - get a kick out of 'putting women in their place' and asserting your dominance the only way of validating masculinity? It's so utterly pathetic.


Thank you. Agreed


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For those that say porn causes less sexual assults, I would say no, you're probably watching a sexual assault as many of the women/girls are forced into it. Also, the more you watch it the more you become addicted and you start to want to watch more and more, until the stuff you want to see isn't there, and hen it turns scary :/


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lol I honestly love Red one

She rustles jimmies so masterfully.
The prevalence of video streaming sites means that the traditional 'porn industry' is dying, so you should all be pleased.

Recent years has been all about the rise of amateur pornography, and user-generated content. This is far more healthy, as it is filmed by real couples, so portrays a much more realistic version of sex and body image.

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