Asians: do you struggle to talk to white people?

I'm an Asian female medical student and I am really struggling to make conversation with most the white people on my firm, particularly the guys. I'm not religious, I drink, I have had boyfriends and I have lived in the country all my life. Just....there's a barrier there and I don't know why. Does anyone else feel the same?

I'm an Asian female medical student and I am really struggling to make conversation with most the white people on my firm, particularly the guys. I'm not religious, I drink, I have had boyfriends and I have lived in the country all my life. Just....there's a barrier there and I don't know why. Does anyone else feel the same?

This fear, being afraid, comes from feeling judged (laughed at, embarrassed ) and (possibly) inferior (not racially, I mean in just how you feel generally.) What are you afraid of ?

Let me give an example. You look like the elephant man. Would you have difficulty talking to people ?

If so, why ? if not, why not ?

it's the same example. A fear of something, that holds you back from doing something else, to avoid a negative emotion.

What if a famous celebrity walked past you ? Would you be afraid ? If so why ? identify the emotions and thought process that happens. You think they are superior, you are inferior, so you feel worth-less, not good enough,

but you only feel those emotions when they are triggered by the event given in my example.




or am i talking cra* ?

I'm an Asian female medical student and I am really struggling to make conversation with most the white people on my firm, particularly the guys. I'm not religious, I drink, I have had boyfriends and I have lived in the country all my life. Just....there's a barrier there and I don't know why. Does anyone else feel the same?

I'm an Asian female medical student and I am really struggling to make conversation with most the white people on my firm, particularly the guys. I'm not religious, I drink, I have had boyfriends and I have lived in the country all my life. Just....there's a barrier there and I don't know why. Does anyone else feel the same?

Inferiority comes from low self esteem,
low confidence means you don't think you are good enough to have a nice house, a good job,
a nice life, nice things,
because you have no self worth,
perhaps a guilt complex.

no self worth usually comes from comparing yourself to others who are superior,
why are you comparing yourself ?
why do you feel you aren't good enough for their attention ?
because you think they are better ? why ?

why do you judge yourself ?
perhaps you are ashamed.
perhaps you have a drug addiction you are ashamed of, or maybe you think you are too ugly, too poor, too badly dressed,
and you come to the conclusion, I'm not good enough.
follow the thought process,
what goes on in your mind as you approach someone.

go deep inside your own mind, very deep, only you can do it.

This is really helpful. Really helpful. What do you study?

I'm south Asian and I never had trouble talking to any other race people. Am I the only one that doesn't look at people via their race/ religion? They are humans, just like you.

is this a troll thread or something . whats wrong with talking to white people, they are human aswell ? '-'

tbh im more comfortable talking to white people than Asians cause most asians are just abit too arrogant !