Would anyone date someone like this?

Someone that is:

Shy
Has low self esteem
uses tsr
has a monobrow
under average sized penis
low confidence
cn be a little bit lazy
has anxiety
over thinks a lot
sometimes misses/ruins opportunities
makes the wrong decision a lot
depressed
ruminates a lot
time waster
has issues etc
has gynecomastia
no friends.

I think that's about it, do you think, despite these issues, I could stil be a ideal person to date or would these issues bother you?

Reply 1

ilem

At least sort the monobrow out man.

Reply 2

MidnightDream

No I wouldn't, we'd be polar opposites, with TSR and laziness aside :smile:

No.

These are things i am

Original post by Dream Team .

Someone that is:

Shy
Has low self esteem
uses tsr
Larger than average sized penis
low confidence
Is very lazy
has anxiety
over thinks a lot
sometimes misses/ruins opportunities
makes the wrong decision a lot

I think that's about it, do you think, despite these issues, I could stil be a ideal person to date or would these issues bother you?

Am i datable?
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Reply 5

blablabla321

why did you have to say gynecosmastia and make me google it, you could have just said man boobs .

Reply 6

lou1411

There's no point being negative about all that, if everybody tried to sell themselves by listing their worse personality traits, relationships would be a lot less common than they are today. Instead of perceiving yourself so negatively, why don't you try and change the things you can change; instead of being lazy, be proactive! gynecomastia can be combated with regular exercise, and so if you manage to improve that, your confidence and self esteem may improve! if you believe you have a worth, then others will believe it too!

Reply 7

EllieC130

Do you have any good traits? Not trying to be mean but those are all negatives. Though doesn't sound like my type tbh.

Reply 8

inthedark1

Original post by Dream Team .

Well you have simply listed a load of negative things so what do you expect the answer to be? Lol. You are setting yourself up to fail you should be bigging yourself up not putting down If you are going to be negative at least list your positives too. Don't put yourself down because I did it for ages and people really do start to believe you! People don't trust me now because I put myself down so much and have a nursing qualification.. they say they wouldn't come on my ward but to be fair I have called myself thick and dopy for the past 10 years so what else can they think. It's my own fault you need self esteem to be successful or at least pretend that you have.

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Reply 9

Norin

Original post by Dream Team .

well they do say opposites attract

Reply 10

Dream Team .

Oh and I have OCD,

and i'm sensitive

that's about it

Reply 11

Lisah:)

Original post by Dream Team .

Well shyness is cute. Nothing wrong with using TSR. You can boost your self-esteem and confidence, just look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself 'I bloody love me.' As for being lazy, join a club... You'll like it after a while and it'll get rid of your 'gynecomastia' right? Well I don't know how fix depression but just try smiling at random things. As for anxiety, I have an anxiety disorder too and sometimes it helps to just talk to yourself.. I don't mean in a weird way, I mean just tell yourself that you're okay and that you're great. I'm sure you have some friends, if you really don't then just go out into the world and say hello to someone. If you exude confidence other people will sense it. Lastly, if you really don't think you can believe that you're awesome then pretend you are. It sounds like terrible advice but trust me, fake it til you make it! Eventually you'll wake up one day and realise that you've stopped pretending.