I think this 55/60 year old man is hitting on me... What do I do?

Original post by Twinport53

I think it is weird that a man that age is talking too you regardless. He isn't family or a friend, and he is no longer your boss. Even if he was, he shouldn't be talking too you in a none professional way. Get rid. Just block him.

What is he realistically going to do? Tell other people a young girl has stopped talking too him late at night?

"That age"? You make him sound as if he's 200 years old.

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lmao this so funny :hahaha:

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Original post by Stinkum

"That age"? You make him sound as if he's 200 years old.

Hahahahahahahahahah no.

20 year old girl, 60 year old man? Yeah atleast its normal and he makes her feel comfortable and not at all awkward aswell. :yy:

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I've been hit on by old guys a lot and I don't mind up to 55, tbh. I don't know what I just read actually :rofl:

I can't stop laughing...

This one really did it for me:

My thing is: I'm surprised he's over 50 & knows how to use this.

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C=N-R

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Pretty awkward situation to be in, blocking him would be the most reasonable way to go about this.

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Stinkum

Original post by Twinport53

Hahahahahahahahahah no.

20 year old girl, 60 year old man? Yeah atleast its normal and he makes her feel comfortable and not at all awkward aswell. :yy:

Again...nothing wrong with that. If you said 12 year old girl, 90 year old man....then yeah, I would think that's extremely weird. But at 20, she's a fully mature adult. At 60, he's a mature gentleman. Age really has nothing to do with this whole discussion and needs to be overlooked entirely. It's more important to focus on what's actually going on. It's creepy behaviour regardless of age. Would you really think any differently if it was a 20 year old boy sending those messages?

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Original post by Stinkum

Again...nothing wrong with that. If you said 12 year old girl, 90 year old man....then yeah, I would think that's extremely weird. But at 20, she's a fully mature adult. At 60, he's a mature gentleman. Age really has nothing to do with this whole discussion and needs to be overlooked entirely. It's more important to focus on what's actually going on. It's creepy behaviour regardless of age. Would you really think any differently if it was a 20 year old boy sending those messages?

So you think it's ok with a 40 year age gap? And then saying cute ass and pretending it was meant too be cuteness?

Aye righto buddy :yy:

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Stinkum

Original post by Twinport53

So you think it's ok with a 40 year age gap? And then saying cute ass and pretending it was meant too be cuteness?

Aye righto buddy :yy:

Age gap here means nothing. Like I already said, she's a fully mature adult, well into her adult years. She's not 12!! And 60 isn't old for a man, not even. Okay, if you smoke a lot and eat a lot of carbs and you really let yourself go, you're going to appear old regardless of what you do. But generally, 60 for a man is nothing. Let me know when he hits 80 yeah, then we can talk.

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Ceryni

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Original post by Twinport53

So you think it's ok with a 40 year age gap? And then saying cute ass and pretending it was meant too be cuteness?

Aye righto buddy :yy:

She's an adult, he's an adult; there's nothing wrong with adults having sex, whatever the age gap :rolleyes:

Only problem here is that OP is uncomfortable; honestly, just be straight with the guy, but not rude, and make it clear that you don't want anything! :wink:

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Original post by Stinkum

Age gap here means nothing. Like I already said, she's a fully mature adult, well into her adult years. She's not 12!! And 60 isn't old for a man, not even. Okay, if you smoke a lot and eat a lot of carbs and you really let yourself go, you're going to appear old regardless of what you do. But generally, 60 for a man is nothing. Let me know when he hits 80 yeah, then we can talk.

God help you.

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Original post by Stinkum

Again...nothing wrong with that. If you said 12 year old girl, 90 year old man....then yeah, I would think that's extremely weird. But at 20, she's a fully mature adult. At 60, he's a mature gentleman. Age really has nothing to do with this whole discussion and needs to be overlooked entirely. It's more important to focus on what's actually going on. It's creepy behaviour regardless of age. Would you really think any differently if it was a 20 year old boy sending those messages?

This isn't creepy. He's flirting. As in the OP she mentioned age for a reason. Clearly he being much older than presumably her it makes it creepy. If a hot or average young guy was saying the stuff it wouldn't be half as gross or hilarious :rofl:

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Original post by Ceryni

She's an adult, he's an adult; there's nothing wrong with adults having sex, whatever the age gap :rolleyes:

Only problem here is that OP is uncomfortable; honestly, just be straight with the guy, but not rude, and make it clear that you don't want anything! :wink:

Yes and it is the age difference making her uncomfortable you spoon and then on top of that he is coming onto her :facepalm2:

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Keoje

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This is so ****ed up and creepy on a new level :indiff:

Block that ****er and ignore him

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Ceryni

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Original post by Twinport53

Yes and it is the age difference making her uncomfortable you spoon and then on top of that he is coming onto her :facepalm2:

Oh wow, I didn't realise???

:rolleyes:

He's being pretty obvious that he's looking for sex; there's no reason to get all hufty pufty about it and call him "creepy and disgusting" - hooking up is a pretty common thing!! She can just make it clear that it ain't happening :cool:

Spoiler

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