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I like one of my best guy friends

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The two relationships I have had in the past I initiated both of them! It's really not that uncommon for girls to ask guys out.

Yeah I remember that friends episode, it is kind of like that in a way as he is part of my friendship circle which is the main reason I'm hesitant, if he wasn't I would have asked him out already.

Go for it. Friendship can be a solid basis for the relationship. (Rachel and Monica's advice to Joey).

But wait for them to be single first.

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Original post by Anonymous

Ok so .... this girl liked me and in an attempt to show it, she did a few things that she usually didn't. Like you, we are among a group and have known each other for 4 years now. It took me a while to catch on, but I soon got the hint. Heres some things she did:

- started complimenting me, especially when i got fit again (sporty fit i mean) or when i got a hair cut or a new outfit etc.
- she asked me to go with her for lunch or go to hers for dinner, just the two of us and we never did this before.
- she started asking me to take her places .... particularly thorpe park and the cinema or a drive. again she didn't want any of our other friends there.
- she would quite evidently show me that she was upset if i didn't talk to her enough or spent more time with the other girl in our group.

I soon caught on .... but I didn't see her that way. So I didn't act on it. If your friend likes you after noticing few changes like above then he is likely to act on it. I also like the other person's suggestion to ask something like "have you thought about the two of us...." - you need to pick the right moment of course!