If a girl is talkative to you in person, but unresponsive in texting?

I suppose this is better than it working the other way around like ot does most of the time
Maybe she just finds face to face communication easier and prefers it. Some people aren't as big on texting as you can't get across expression in the same way and things can get misinterpreted so she might just not invest that much into text conversations

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An attractive girl talks to you normally in person (very friendly). In fact, freshers week she was so so friendly. She's not in my halls, but friends with one of my coursework groupmates who is a girl and whom I am friends with.

By text, it's like she's someone else.. forget about being flirty, she's not really even that friendly. The tone of the message is pretty cold and sometimes she doesn't respond. There is no x.

But again, in person she is very friendly and smiley.

What does that mean?!!!!

I think it sounds like she just wants to be friends... sorry.
I don't think she's being horrible in texts because I have a friend who is a very lovely person but when she texts me it's in a very blunt manner with no xs ever, I think some people just text like that.

You must understand that a lot of people become cold and impersonal when they take hold of a phone, it has exactly that effect upon me.

Some people just don't do well with wording things how they mean over text! Personally I wouldn't be disheartened by it at all, after all is it the text conversations or the face to face conversations that mean the most?

An attractive girl talks to you normally in person (very friendly). In fact, freshers week she was so so friendly. She's not in my halls, but friends with one of my coursework groupmates who is a girl and whom I am friends with.

By text, it's like she's someone else.. forget about being flirty, she's not really even that friendly. The tone of the message is pretty cold and sometimes she doesn't respond. There is no x.

But again, in person she is very friendly and smiley.

What does that mean?!!!!

it means shes aware that she has the power to influence people in person.
shes probably in the habit of winning favour in person.

when your not around there in a social environment your favour isnt needed.

she probably is shagging someone else.
probably has a load of guys on her phone texting her.
probably aint really into u.

shes a waste of your time and a distraction from better things you could be doing.

AGREED.

I've just deleted the number. She's hot, but she's not nice that's for sure.

An attractive girl talks to you normally in person (very friendly). In fact, freshers week she was so so friendly. She's not in my halls, but friends with one of my coursework groupmates who is a girl and whom I am friends with.

By text, it's like she's someone else.. forget about being flirty, she's not really even that friendly. The tone of the message is pretty cold and sometimes she doesn't respond. There is no x.

But again, in person she is very friendly and smiley.

What does that mean?!!!!

An attractive girl talks to you normally in person (very friendly). In fact, freshers week she was so so friendly. She's not in my halls, but friends with one of my coursework groupmates who is a girl and whom I am friends with.

By text, it's like she's someone else.. forget about being flirty, she's not really even that friendly. The tone of the message is pretty cold and sometimes she doesn't respond. There is no x.

But again, in person she is very friendly and smiley.

What does that mean?!!!!

yea i was in the same boat. this girl that was my best friend and flirty when she was around me in person or needed help from me with course work but was a cold ******** the entire other time. so i dusted my hands of her.

but it was funny i started dating a girl in the same class who was way more attractive than her and she got all weird about it.

i was late for a lecture and the ass girl happened to bump into me. sure enough best friends yada yada walking with me to the lecture. but my girlfriend was waiting for me outside the lecture. i was trying to shake her before i got there by saying i was going to the shop for a drink (she followed, i think just didnt wanna be late and walk in alone) but yea then met my girlfriend and i said "see ya later" to the ass girl. but she was just stunned and didnt no how to handle it and stood waiting for us... which was SOOOOO WEIRD. anyway im like... wow ok this girl isnt gonna go so we might aswell go in the lecture. we do and this weirdo wants to sit next to me and my girlfriend.

totally weird possessive couldnt handle being unwanted stuff. i think the fact that my girlfriend was more attractive than her kinda shook her up too.

but yea. thought the story might inspire.

Some people just don't do well with wording things how they mean over text! Personally I wouldn't be disheartened by it at all, after all is it the text conversations or the face to face conversations that mean the most?

I think it sounds like she just wants to be friends... sorry.
I don't think she's being horrible in texts because I have a friend who is a very lovely person but when she texts me it's in a very blunt manner with no xs ever, I think some people just text like that.

RESPECT!! Thanks bud. Yeah I'm trying to ask out a really hot girl who is also NICE. Such a change from this time waster.




Of course I agree. I prefer face to face too. I just felt disheartened because she is really really friendly face to face, but virtually ignores my texts. I'm beginning to wonder whether she is a faker.



Yeah I guess. I've deleted her number now. I'm on a different module and although she is friendly in person, she seems to just be seeking validation as she is pretty. I'd much rather talk to an attractive and nice person than a user/faker. Thanks for the tips!

Oh Christ, classic "nice guy" syndrome. A girl doesn't fall at your feet when you text her and you think it's ok to call her a user/faker/time waster/attention seeker? No wonder she's blanking you, you sound awful.

Come again? So I was nice to a girl. She is nice to me. IN PERSON.

I text her, she blanks me. In person, she blanks me. Fact was that she was nice to me when I was doing well and she wanted to be part of the excitement and now is so so.

Why would she ignore texts completely?

How am I awful? Read the OP!! I'm not saying all girls are bad. This girl though was a time waster. Why would you be a bad person when texting? I've deleted her number. I've got 1. better friends and 2. nicer girls I would like to talk to.