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I don't get why girls would have with a stranger but not best guy friend

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Original post by Eva.Gregoria
Nothing in the media suggests that women hop on a megabus to go and see men all around the country, don't know where you get that from :confused:

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It's nothing to do with going to see men. Have you ever been sitting over the engine on a bus when it vibrates :colone:
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Original post by scrotgrot
It's nothing to do with going to see men. Have you ever been sitting over the engine on a bus when it vibrates :colone:


Yes. Strangely, I don't think that's what he meant with his post :tongue:
Original post by Anonymous
Why don't girls have sex with their guy friends more often?

He doesn't have to go out with you and be clear its just for fun so I don't get why girls turn down because surely doing with a friend you can trust them and know their personality plus you can actually talk afterwards instead of running off, its also much safer because doing with a stranger they could hurt you/play you.

I hope more girls out give their guy friends a chance.


Are you the guy last night in a bar who ruined the flirting between me and the friend you like but who doesn't like you back?
but if its just for fun then it shouldn't bother you if both people don't want take it further. I personally prefer it because can do other stuff before and after.

With stranger girls I usually can't wait for her to leave and I think that is more awkward than waking next to a friend.
Original post by Anonymous
but if its just for fun then it shouldn't bother you if both people don't want take it further. I personally prefer it because can do other stuff before and after.

With stranger girls I usually can't wait for her to leave and I think that is more awkward than waking next to a friend.

But if they don't fancy you, why should they feel obliged to have sex with you?

FWB situations very rarely work out well for both parties. Girls know this and may well not want to risk it. Or they just don't find you attractive. That is allowed, you know.
Original post by Helenia
But if they don't fancy you, why should they feel obliged to have sex with you?

FWB situations very rarely work out well for both parties. Girls know this and may well not want to risk it. Or they just don't find you attractive. That is allowed, you know.


you don't have to fancy someone to **** them, I've done girls I don't fancy but still done it because its fun.

what is FWB?
There are many girls out there who feed their own egos by hoovering up guys who they probably never will shag but whom they find useful for other practical and psychological reasons and they park them in what i call LJBF mode.. thats lets just be friends.

If you find yourself in that category you will have to suffer being some kind of royal escort whilst watching her meet other guys who you know she will shag..
Dont do it. No lay? Go away !
dont be a LJBF door mat..
Original post by Anonymous
There are many girls out there who feed their own egos by hoovering up guys who they probably never will shag but whom they find useful for other practical and psychological reasons and they park them in what i call LJBF mode.. thats lets just be friends.

If you find yourself in that category you will have to suffer being some kind of royal escort whilst watching her meet other guys who you know she will shag..
Dont do it. No lay? Go away !
dont be a LJBF door mat..


What the actual **** even is this *******s? Are you implying that men and women cannot or should not just be friends?
OP, you're ugly. FULL STOP.
This is why being "friends" with women is ridiculous. The guy hangs around like a lap dog hoping he will get the girl and then suddenly to add to his humiliation she starts ******* some random nonentity who she by some mysterious inexplicable process she finds "hot". Being in the friendzone is a completely emasculating experience.
That depends really! Actually most of the girls I know, mates really, sleep with their friends...it's so bizarre. Like, 5 days into the relationship and they start ***ging each other after drunken nights out together as a group! :lolwut:
Original post by Old_Simon
This is why being "friends" with women is ridiculous. The guy hangs around like a lap dog hoping he will get the girl and then suddenly to add to his humiliation she starts ******* some random nonentity who she by some mysterious inexplicable process she finds "hot". Being in the friendzone is a completely emasculating experience.


This is why being "friends" with men is ridiculous. The girl hangs around like a lap dog hoping she will get the guy and then suddenly to add to her humiliation he starts ******* some random chick who he by some mysterious inexplicable process finds "hot". Being in the friendzone is a completely de-feminizing experience.

Does it seem stupid when you put it the other way round to you? Where it is the woman in the "friendzone" and not the man.

Even still I find it ridiculous, no one has an obligation to be attracted to anybody. If you like a girl and she doesn't like you back and you can't handle that then don't be her friend, remove yourself from the situation because it's not the girls obligation to **** you.
Original post by SophieSmall
What the actual **** even is this *******s? Are you implying that men and women cannot or should not just be friends?

You are not quoting me but that is what I am saying. A married woman does not have male "friends" who fancy her that she "goes out" socially with including drinking and dancing and sometimes ******* as FWB. So why don't women with bfs just stay out of social life so guys get a clear run at single / available girls ? The real dynamic of girls with male friends is that everybody knows he fancies the girl but she is turning him down - hence he is a poodle.
Original post by Old_Simon
You are not quoting me but that is what I am saying. A married woman does not have male "friends" who fancy her that she "goes out" socially with including drinking and dancing and sometimes ******* as FWB. So why don't women with bfs just stay out of social life so guys get a clear run at single / available girls ? The real dynamic of girls with male friends is that everybody knows he fancies the girl but she is turning him down - hence he is a poodle.


That's the biggest load of nonsense I have ever read, my entire friendship group are men, half of them are in relationships and the other half aren't. I have been both single and in a relationship during the time I have been friends with them. And not once have any of them tried anything on with me or tried to show any affection for me.

Also I quoted you before, feel free to answer that one.
Original post by SophieSmall
This is why being "friends" with men is ridiculous. The girl hangs around like a lap dog hoping she will get the guy and then suddenly to add to her humiliation he starts ******* some random chick who he by some mysterious inexplicable process finds "hot". Being in the friendzone is a completely de-feminizing experience.

Does it seem stupid when you put it the other way round to you? Where it is the woman in the "friendzone" and not the man.

Even still I find it ridiculous, no one has an obligation to be attracted to anybody. If you like a girl and she doesn't like you back and you can't handle that then don't be her friend, remove yourself from the situation because it's not the girls obligation to **** you.

I do not disagree. Guys shouldn't let girls hang round them at all, in order to avoid the heartache you describe. Plus it puts of potential gfs who do not know who the "friend" is and wonder what is going on. Guys who hang with girls just look sad and desperate.
Original post by Old_Simon
I do not disagree. Guys shouldn't let girls hang round them at all, in order to avoid the heartache you describe. Plus it puts of potential gfs who do not know who the "friend" is and wonder what is going on. Guys who hang with girls just look sad and desperate.


Since you have so many green gems I'm finding it hard to tell if you are trolling or you are actually serious. Either way all of my friends are men (bar 2 women) and we are all very happy being friends. Would you have differing opinions if men were friends with lesbians? As then they would know that they had no chance because...lesbian. Or is every hole a goal? And apparently no man can face not having the opportunity to stick his dick in every female he is ever friends with?
Because being somebody's friend doesn't entitle you to sex, haha?
But yeah, there could be a hundred reasons! A lack of sexual attraction, particularly if you're close friends, would probably be the #1 reason.
Original post by SophieSmall
Since you have so many green gems I'm finding it hard to tell if you are trolling or you are actually serious. Either way all of my friends are men (bar 2 women) and we are all very happy being friends. Would you have differing opinions if men were friends with lesbians? As then they would know that they had no chance because...lesbian. Or is every hole a goal? And apparently no man can face not having the opportunity to stick his dick in every female he is ever friends with?

Well men take rejection badly. That is not always a bad thing. It is a sign from nature he needs to give up and move on to the next girl not to hang round like a sick puppy. Needless to say of course the most attractive girls who have bfs are also the same girls who collect men "friends" and when these same girls decide to ditch the bf they are very well placed to choose from their pre positioned circle of admirers. These selfish women are just feeding their egos and causing misery.
Original post by SophieSmall
no one has an obligation to be attracted to anybody. If you like a girl and she doesn't like you back and you can't handle that then don't be her friend, remove yourself from the situation because it's not the girls obligation to **** you.

PREACH.

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