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A girl has asked me out after 5 days of knowing her

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She had a massive go at me for saying, i havent known you long enough and want to get to know her more.

anyway, we are definatly not going out now, she went full blown terror at me

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Kieran

i understand you, i had this happen to me, met a guy only twice and he asked me out, i said "maybe" and he took the 'rejection' so badly, wanting to know the exact reason why i didnt say yes, wasnt it obvious? two days is not enough to know whether you want to be with someone. it would be downright stupid to enter a relationship after a short period of time, and if you dont feel comfortable then the person should be understanding of that, youre not under any obligation to dive into something with them if theyre practically a stranger.

if she didnt respect your decision or be understanding and say right yeah that makes sense, lets see how things go and take our time, then she obviously has a lot of stuff she needs to sort out with herself first before she even enters a relationship herself.

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TheTranshumanist

Original post by Foodmaster

She had a massive go at me for saying, i havent known you long enough and want to get to know her more.

anyway, we are definatly not going out now, she went full blown terror at me

Thanks

Kieran

Then you've dodged a bullet, mate; she sounds like a nutter. Consider yourself lucky.