Feminism isn't as extreme as misandry but does share some of the same things in discriminating against men. The difference is that feminism is not as blunt and open with the discrimination as misandrists are.
However, for men there is no movement equivalent to feminism. Misogyny would be the equivalent of fascism on the other end of the spectrum. It is the opposite of misandry, the two extremes, hatred of the opposite sex.
Equality on the political spectrum would be the centre.
For arguments sake we shall include a male equivalent to feminism on the spectrum. This inclusion will help aid the argument. We will as other men have done beforehand call it meninism. Yes it's as stupid as it sounds just like feminism but it will help paint the picture.
So now we have from left to right on the spectrum of gender focused attitudes:
Misandry - Feminism - pure equality - Meninism - Misogyny
As you can see pure equality falls in between the two gender focused movements of feminism and meninism. However, in reality only feminism exists. When you take meninism out of the spectrum you're left with equality and the extremist misogyny.
(Black) Misandry - Feminism (grey) - pure equality (white) - Misogyny (black)
If a man does not support equal rights (he should) then due to there being no feminism equivalent for men he is a misogynistic man and a sexist.
However, if a female does not support equal rights (she should) then they use the feminism label to stop themselves being labeled misandrists. It is a fail safe option in the modern world. Women have created themselves a grey area of opinion between the extremist misandry and equal rights called feminism to hide their true underlying gender bias. Men do not have this so its black or white for them. Men are either sexist or not sexist. Women are either pushing for equal rights, feminists (which they claim is the same thing) or sexist.
Will this ever be resolved? Probably not in the same way political parties go to and fro because of a constant change in public opinions. In fact, just like in politics, the rise of feminists speaking out and being more extremist and vocal has led to a rise in misogynists speaking out.
So yes whilst feminism is more tolerant of men than misandry it is not the equal rights movement many claim it is. For those of us who want equal rights, men and women, it is not tolerant enough and neither would meninism be if it existed as a movement. Feminism is not the equal rights movement many claim it is and if it were then many of its followers would not hold the gender biased opinions they hold.
People who want true equality would not promote feminism or meninism if it existed just as a centrist would not promote the Greens or Labour.
Its time to drop misandry, misogyny and feminism (thinly veiled misandry lite) and to work together as two genders that respect one another towards pure equality. None of that will be achieved through feminism or an equal movement promoted by males. All that does is help more extreme attitudes manifest creating the very monsters within society you sought to do away with in the first instance.