My Best Friend's Annoying Me Soooooo Much

We're both 15 and recently i've noticed how self centred he can be. I never feel like i can talk to him about my problems because he'll just laugh and assume i'll get over it and when i look upset he just tells me to stop being grumpy. He often says quite hurtful things to me but our relationship is kind of jokey and harsh as we're really close and can say whatever we like to each other most of the time, but recently it's started to hurt me the way that he's been saying it. i've told him that i was upset with him and how i feel like our relationship is a bit one sided sometimes as i always say sorry to him after an argument even if it's that i'm the one who's upset and then he doesn't care when i tell him that he hurt my feelings. I understand that some of these little arguments we get into are silly but sometimes the things he says really upset me. i don't know what to do because i love him so much and i don't want to lose him as a friend. is it just that as it's the end of the year we are getting a bit sick of each other ? we never usually dislike each other.

Speak to him! He needs to learn to respect you x