Sick of guys moaning that they can't get female attention at the club!

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Why The Club Is Bad For Picking Up Girls:

Clubs are loud, this means verbal game is all but useless

*If you aren't a promoter, celebrity, staff or a hot girl you are an outsider*. As an outsider you have no value.

There are a million distractions for women in these environments, its very unlikely you’ll be the most interesting thing in her reality

Clubs are the Olympics of socializing, meaning the difficulty and competition level is highest, you can make things much easier focusing on social circle, online and meeting women during the day

Generally speaking, quality women do not go to clubs very often or ever, that means the girl you met at the club is most likely not a fit for anything besides a casual relationship

Cockblocks are everywhere in the form of the girl’s friends, her guy orbiters secretly in love with her, her song coming on that she needs to dance to etc.

You’re also working against the stigma of being a random guy, that means not only do you have to pass her filter, you have to pass her friends and extricate her from having a good time to come with you at the risk of her reputation

The entire nightclub industry is built off the backs of guys trying to get laid but paradoxically the club is the hardest place for the average guy to get laid

Right, I'm a 19 year old white male and went clubbing last night in Birmingham. When I got there, there were loads of whites, black and brown people so I thought cool, everyone's mixing. When it came to the dancefloor and griding with girls though, only the coloured people (brown and black people) danced like mad and grinded with girls. The white guys just started sitting down and drinking, as if to let the other guys dance. Not one white person!!!!! The coloured people seemed more out going, loud, better dancers and basically pulled nearly all the fit girls.


Then when everyone starte leavign the club, all the nice looking girls were leaving with the asians and blacks to go to their apartments. I mean me and my mates (Also white) left with no girls.


is it in the coloured peoples genes to be more confident or something because it sure looks like it when I've been clubbing.


Also, these Indians and blacks were those rudeboi types of people and were drinking a lot more and actually like ****ing animals in and out of the club!!


Explain??

Some people just go cause it's fun?

Or just become staff, fish on a barrel job then.

Is it? I don't recall seeing the bar staff and bottle collectors pulling much. Or do you mean promoters? Maybe if it's some super exclusive London club, but at most places I don't think people are going to fall head over heals for someone handing out coupons for half price entry before half eleven and free shot of corkys.

Does nobody else enjoy going to clubs even without trying to pull? Going just for the sake of getting laid seems a little sad, I just go because it is a fun thing to d with friends. And seeing as most female friends I go with go for the same reason that is probably why some guys find it hard to pull, a lot of women there aren't even interested in that. I enjoy it even more now I have a girlfriend because it removes a lot of the pressure.

Yeah your post assumes that all guys go out with the intention to pull, I did at first then I realised just how difficult it was and began going out to have a good time with my friends and dance instead

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I understand where you're coming from for most of your post. But some of us actually like the music they play there! Electronic dance anthems all the way!

True, but in the majority of clubs most guys will be on the prowl and pining for female attention. Most clubs are meatmarkets. Especially in towns. In cities like Manchester and Leeds though you get places that emphasise (usually underground) music (your places that play specialise more in certain genres of music like funk and soul), though in these places you still get the 'guys on the prowl' thing to a certain degree. It's just the music is usually more enjoyable and more people are there to dance.

In meatmarkets the music is usually the last thing on people's minds.


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True, but in the majority of clubs most guys will be on the prowl and pining for female attention. Most clubs are meatmarkets. Especially in towns.

In cities like Manchester and Leeds though you get places that emphasise (usually underground) music (your places that play specialise more in certain genres of music like funk and soul), though in these places you still get the 'guys on the prowl' thing to a certain degree. It's just the music is usually more enjoyable and more people are there to dance. if you have 10 meatmarkets and student meatmarkets in an area you usually have 3 decent clubs.

In meatmarkets the music is usually the last thing on people's minds.


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I understand where you're coming from for most of your post. But some of us actually like the music they play there! Electronic dance anthems all the way!