Alright, TSR. Help a brotha out here.
So I went out with this girl for the first time 2 weekends ago (not this past weekend, but the one before that). We met up for a few drinks. Got along incredibly well. I've never had a first date go as well as this. Conversation was flowing like the Nile. There weren't any awkward first date silences. We had a ton of things in common. She was very flirtatious. We spent about 3 or 4 hours at this bar. It was awesome. Eventually the night ended. I didn't kiss her only because her sister was picking her up and that would have been weird as ****. It was a blind date, if that matters.
She texts me later that night telling me how much fun she had. I replied. We both said how we couldn't wait to see each other again. So I call her up on Monday and plan a date for Saturday (this past Saturday). She says yes. Boom. We texted a lot during the week. And I am not a big texter at all. So Saturday comes around and she texts me like 2 hours before I was supposed to pick her up and tells me that she was still at work. Now she works at a hospital so I have no reason to doubt that she was actually working. The timing and lack of communication just irked me a bit. But I told her it was all good, not to worry, and she asked to reschedule. I say ok. I assumed she meant reschedule for this coming weekend. But maybe I shouldn't have assumed.
So I'm talking to her tonight and trying to reschedule the date. I ask what she's doing this coming weekend. She says she just remembered that she's going to the beach all weekend and won't be available. Eventually we agree on going out the following weekend. So in almost 2 weeks.
So I just re-read this. First of all it's a lot. My bad. Props to anyone who reads this. I'm also kind of drunk so I hope it's not too confusing. But I guess I'm just wondering is this girl playing me? Or am I just being really paranoid for no reason? She cancelled the first time we were supposed to go out because of work. Granted, it was a weeknight. Then she cancelled this past weekend and won't see me again for 2 weeks.
She's definitely into me. It's just the cancellations and 3 weeks between dates that is throwing me off and makes no sense. I've never encountered a situation like this. I also really like her, which is part of the *******. Not thinking clearly on this one. Am I just really overthinking this one? Any advice would be much appreciated.