Has anyone ceased contact with both their parents? How do you make that transition?
I have decided that I want to stop being in contact with them and don't want to have anything to do with them any longer.
Recently the prick and bitch asked me to sign a waiver that I won't make a claim or to challenge their will. I didn't sign anything as I told them I should seek some legal advice to that matter first to ensure I know what was it I'm signing. They first hesitated then finally they showed the contents of their will.
They are leaving nothing for me but everything goes towards the other 3 siblings and their children. First they said the others need their money more than me as they are poorly educated and isn't doing well in life. Then they said they spent a lot more on my education.
I did look at it and calculated it back in real terms that true they sent me to boarding school and paid for my time at university. However it is nothing by comparison to what they had done for the others, 1 didn't go to uni because he is a waster but they bought him a house in a nice area and set him up with a car. The others did go to university though a not very good one. Again parents bought them a house each and when they graduated they each received a car. I didn't get any of those opting instead to buy my own car.
I told them they can do whatever the hell they wanted and I wasn't going to sign anything. Then they kept pushing to sign it and told me they'd give me a small token for doing so but I told them I wanted the house my grandparents lived in and was willing to buy it over at market value, they disagreed saying that house is what the eldest wants. I told them they can do whatever they wanted and don't call me again.
I get it I'm not their favourite but I was hoping I could at least take over the house my late grandparents lived at as it has lots of special memories in it and of the 3 of us I was the only one who ever spent any time there. It wasn't that I wanted it for nothing but even paying for it seems as if it is too much to ask for I don't see the point of even having them in my life.
Thoughts and tips.