Out of your league

I will be friends with anyone so long as theyre a nice, interesting person - no matter what they look like. You can go out with someone for whats inside etc, but if you don't find them attractive and think theyre "below" you, then I dont think it will work. I do think there is a league, nobody can say they don't judge. Personal opinion also plays a part, a very pretty girl could see herself as a "5" and someone deemed less attractive could see themselves as an "8" therefore having the confidence to speak to the pretty girl.

Has anyone ever thought that if people are too scared to approach "pretty girls" that they may in fact be getting less attention than others. Also agree that you can be the most stunning person in the world but none of that matters if youre rubbish to be around.

I don't think that any guy can get any girl (or vice versa) but I do believe that so-called leagues have nothing to do with looks,

Had this discussion with a (female) friend of mine the other day.

She basically said no-one is out of anyones league.

Now I'm a loud, confident guy who will generally talk to anyone. And whilst I'm no Brad Pitt, I'm also no elephant man.

Still, wherever I am, its sometimes hard to approach a very pretty girl. The ones in my class at college and that I work with is obviously easy but just out generally...I'd even be a bit intimidated just talking to one as a mate incase they got the wrong idea because they will be used to guys chatting them up.

What do the pretty ones amognst you think when you approached by a guy that is not considered 'pretty'?

There is nothing worse in the world than pretty girls who know it and make it seem like they are better than you.The ones who will only have pretty friends etc...

I'm trying to find a point but I've lost it.

Thoughys?

I disagree on the whole "confidence" thing. Its much more to do with "a lack of insecurity".

Girl leagues...its a mental block, a mind virus, they don't really exist. The barriers that do exist - most are not based on looks, its mostly based on personality, from my view as a not so good looking guy myself.

well i find confidence attractive, seeing as a guy had the guts to come upto me and chat, opposed to sitting by myself with men looking at me, but not having the guts to talk!

You have made a good point. I have been following this thread and I have to agree with AdrirDarklance. It seems to be a mental block, this whole issue. I guess, if you look at it into perspective , all it really boils down to is the "fear of rejection", once the guy can overcome that and accept that some girls will fancy him, whilst others won't (regardless of their level of fitness); it is easy from that point on. A lot of guys wont "try" at all, due to them not being able to overcome the above fear so will use excuses such as "ohhh she is out of my league, so I wont bother"

git

rep?

just repped ya

youre still a git though

Thank you for the compliment I am chuffed.

youre picking up my phrases

Im slowly yorkshirefying you *laughs evily*

soon youll be saying stuff like- well go ta foot o'our stairs

can you go and put the kettle on love?

You have made a good point. I have been following this thread and I have to agree with AdrirDarklance. It seems to be a mental block, this whole issue. I guess, if you look at it into perspective , all it really boils down to is the "fear of rejection", once the guy can overcome that and accept that some girls will fancy him, whilst others won't (regardless of their level of fitness); it is easy from that point on. A lot of guys wont "try" at all, due to them not being able to overcome the above fear so will use excuses such as "ohhh she is out of my league, so I wont bother"

You have made a good point. I have been following this thread and I have to agree with AdrirDarklance. It seems to be a mental block, this whole issue. I guess, if you look at it into perspective , all it really boils down to is the "fear of rejection", once the guy can overcome that and accept that some girls will fancy him, whilst others won't (regardless of their level of fitness); it is easy from that point on. A lot of guys wont "try" at all, due to them not being able to overcome the above fear so will use excuses such as "ohhh she is out of my league, so I wont bother"

nah, make your own cuppas

if your with someone long wnough with an accent you pick it up y'know