Are some in denial?

OK, but fat is not hot... I'm not judgmental, but then I'd say it's common for fat women not to be good dating material.

Er...OK. yes, everything is subjective....got that basic fact when I was a child.... what more basic facts do you have? I just sense you're fat and offended at some random Web comment I've made haha... Oh, and to pre-empt a response, you judged me so I judge you.

Why do some fat girls think they're hot? I remember in school and even now some fat girls tended to say how pretty they were. OK, they got dates, but probably because they were loud and outgoing, not due to their looks.

Thing is, why the arrogance of how good looking they are, when clearly they're low on the looks scale? I'm not judgmental, but I don't get it.

Whilst I would encourage everyone to be as healthy as they possibly can (and this does include being a healthy weight), we have to understand that some people have conditions that make this difficult. Also some may have issues which lead them to comfort eating. Some are just lazy as hell, sure, but I don't believe that they all are.

Even if they are a pig, why should I care? It's not as bad as some other habits like smoking where their habit can have an effect on others not just themselves.

Well, I'm glad I have entertained you. It entertains me also how someone cannot take criticism and has to resort to foolish insults but alas I have come to realise there are a lot of immature TSR members on here like yourself. By the way, there is no such thing as 'normal-minded people', just to let you know, there are things that may be considered the 'norm' but 'normal-minded people' is a subjective term.

FYI, if you didn't care you wouldn't have quoted me and responded to me in the first place.

Ah, of course, only fat girls can stick up for fat girls!! I'm done with this thread, reading your responses is becoming painful.

Meow, how about less of the catty comments and more coherent arguments, babe?

The proof of the pudding is if you get relationships and many girls who are not classic skinny super models get plenty. Personally I have always had a penchant for small plump girls with pretty faces, although not to the exclusion of other pleasant aspects of femininity. I worry more about ignoramuses who see the need to be proactively insulting and suspect that they themselves are unlikely to be successful, at least in the longer term, in finding a reliable mate.

Their bodies are none of your business.

Some girls are stuck up, that's life,

but others are simply trying to look/be confident in themselves I've seen girls who are overweight who are actually insecure but are afraid to admit it. If they let their guard down and show they're insecure they might get bullied for their weight. Not everything is as it seems

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I don't think fat women are in denial some just psychologically think they cannot lose their weight so decide to stick with it and be happy whilst getting bigger. Others can probably lose weight but decide because they can get man who are attracted to larger women that there is no reason to lose it and maybe they are happy with how they look just like some of these man like a women with a bit of fat. Than there is the group of fat women and men of course who say that they are fat because of a inherited disease this group seems to be very large and used as a excuse by many fat people, I personally think its untrue and this only effects a minority, some are just too lazy to exercise and try and eat more healthy.

Still I see no reason why a fat women should have no confidence in herself, I don't think I have come across a fat women with a unhealthy level of confidence so would not even think to mention it. Although there are women whether skinny or fat who have disgusting personalities. Its not about being in denial it's about being happy with themselves, perhaps more fat women have learnt this, which is not really a bad thing. Not sure what you would want OP should they walk around miserable and continue that reputation they have of being easy?

Although I think some fat or should I say larger sized women can be beautiful, I don't think I would really date a larger women just not for me.

Have you ever dated a larger women by the way? Also why has the issue affected you so much?

Are you just bitter?

Oh look at me I'm awesome and slim and anyone that is fat must be deemed ugly.

Dare you not to be hot and confident.

Why do some fat girls think they're hot? I remember in school and even now some fat girls tended to say how pretty they were. OK, they got dates, but probably because they were loud and outgoing, not due to their looks.

Thing is, why the arrogance of how good looking they are, when clearly they're low on the looks scale? I'm not judgmental, but I don't get it.