There is this guy. . .

Some guys just love the chase, the more you resist the more keen they are.

If it was me I would write out a list of all the next steps you will take. Speaking to his parents, speaking to the police about a restraining order etc, tell him that this is your plan so he is quite clear, then dont hesitate to implememnt it. There is a world of difference between being keen on someone and harrassing/stalking them.

Distance will cure him. You have to outright ignore him.

NO. I have more self respect than that. I'm not going to give into his sick desire. For you sex might be the norm but for me it's not. Secondly, I don't drink alcohol.
Thanks for your input.

Well, it wouldn't really mean less self respect its quite easy to get entrenched in a position on this when in reality it would not really be giving in but more expedient to just give him what he wants and let him be on his way. Just consider it I would instead of dismissing the notion out of hand.

I don't talk to him much anyway. We have mutual friends due to which I have to tolerate him when we go out as a group.



You've hit the nail on the head. He is extremely good looking and girls rarely say 'no' to him but I'm not one of those girls.
I don't know. Within those three years he has been with other girls whilst at the same time he has been asking me out constantly. When I asked him that if he really liked me then why is he going out with other girls? He said "A man needs to have fun". :/



I think it's the first and maybe the second. He has said that I am "relationship material". But I know he will just use me and then move on to someone else.
Nope, he's Asian (not that should matter).

What kind of Asian??..

Indian. Why does that even matter?

I'm just curious.
What ethnicity are you?

I'm Indian, too.

Cool.

Cool.

So do you have any advice, or what?

Nope. None at all.

If you really wanted to get rid of him, say you're seeing someone else.

You could always say you're a lesbian and you could never be interested in him. Sounds crazy, but I've done it before, and while it does depend on the context and how well you know him, it works.

If all else fails, block his number, unfriend him on facebook, don't meet up with him in real life, and make an empty threat to get the police involved if he keeps obsessing over you.

Better yet, find someone else for him to obsess over. Get one of your friends and do some matchmaking with him.

If he keeps coming to your house then you might be able to get the police involved because it's essentially harassment. It might also give him the shock he needs to leave you alone.

You can't worry about the relationship between your parents and his parents at this point. You can't go through this just to maintain their friendship.