Does love make you strong or weak?

Biryani007

What do you think and why?

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Reply 1

missfats

lel.

I am a strong independent women who needs no man.

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Reply 2

unbeknownst_anon

Breakups make me smarter, like a high

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Both in a way

Original post by missfats

lel.

I am a strong independent women who needs no man.

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So I'm guessing you'll be forever alone?

Reply 5

bittr n swt

More to the weak side as love can make you follow your heart and not your head, it makes you vulnerable at times and it hurts when someone you love leaves you.

Reply 6

Biryani007

Original post by missfats

lel.

I am a strong independent women who needs no man.

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Don't worry I'll find you someone :biggrin:

Original post by unbeknownst_anon

Breakups make me smarter, like a high

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What's a high?

Original post by MidnightDream

Both in a way

Explain

Reply 7

CJKay

Both. It can put you on a mountain top, but it can also throw you off the peak.

Reply 8

anonymouspie227

Depends but can make you weak. Very weak. Clouded judgment, distraction :. Weak

Reply 9

Biryani007

Original post by bittr n swt

More to the weak side as love can make you follow your heart and not your head, it makes you vulnerable at times and it hurts when someone you love leaves you.

Do you not see love as something that can make a person stronger?
People say it can but Idk

Reply 10

FigurativeTart

Very weak, and very stupid.
Because I commit myself too much into it. Because I don't expect anything from a relationship aside from having my love accepted by the other partner.

Reply 11

Ornlu

It's a strength and a weakness - the things it can make you achieve are great, because such a strong emotion acts as a driving force and provides a motivation to accomplish goals, and it makes you weak because you can become so dependent upon maintaining that love, that you neglect things or sabotage things in order to keep the established bond of love stable.

Reply 12

Biryani007

Original post by CJKay

Both. It can put you on a mountain top, but it can also throw you off the peak.

'Throw you off the peak'..do you mean when you break up or when you're still with the person you love?

Reply 13

karmacrunch

I think that...

As an individual it probably makes you weak
But...
Together it probably makes you stronger.

Reply 14

Biryani007

Original post by anonymouspie227

Depends but can make you weak. Very weak. Clouded judgment, distraction :. Weak

I agree

Reply 15

Octohedral

Depends if unrequited.

- If they love you back, all life is awesome (unless it makes you insecure).
- If you are rejected you are weakened in the short term (and prone to doing some pretty irrational things). If you become bitter you have been weakened. However, as with any experience, riding the storm successfully should lead to a strengthening of character.

(edited 9 years ago)

Reply 16

Biryani007

Original post by LaMandarine

Very weak, and very stupid.
Because I commit myself too much into it. Because I don't expect anything from a relationship aside from having my love accepted by the other partner.

Commit yourself? What do you mean?

Reply 17

Biryani007

Original post by Ornlu

But the motivation, is it because by doing those things you want to make that person happy? You'll do anything for them...is that a strength or weakness?

Reply 18

MidnightDream

Original post by Biryani007

Explain

Well when you love someone you may feel like you're not alone in a way and you feel secure which may lead you to feeling stronger

However they can also make you weak as you will probably think with your heart and so you will probably end up a massive softie with bad judgement and love can make you distracted as well