He hides phone

When I first dated my fella little did I realise he was still sending his ex dirty messages, to be fair she didn't respond back sexually. He cut contact with her and agreed he was wrong at the time, then said I shouldn't snoop through his things. Now he takes his phone everywhere with him, even to the toilet.

Recently he told me to ring his parents in the car, when I scrolled down he had added some new numbers and one was lettered 'A', he never had any numbers who started with 'A' before and its really bugging me why he wouldn't give that number a name. I didn't want to ask as he would probably say I didn't trust him.

it could be something but could be nothing.

when i meet someone but i've forgotten their name and need their number, i get their number but just type in something random.

also, i use my phone to save things like booking reference numbers for cinema tickets. also, sometimes i get a random number which i need to call but can't be assed to give it a proper name. but maybe that's just me.

When I first dated my fella little did I realise he was still sending his ex dirty messages, to be fair she didn't respond back sexually. He cut contact with her and agreed he was wrong at the time, then said I shouldn't snoop through his things. Now he takes his phone everywhere with him, even to the toilet.

Recently he told me to ring his parents in the car, when I scrolled down he had added some new numbers and one was lettered 'A', he never had any numbers who started with 'A' before and its really bugging me why he wouldn't give that number a name. I didn't want to ask as he would probably say I didn't trust him.

well i have an "A" saved in my memory. it doesnt actually have a number with it. thats cos my phones really stupid and kept unlocking itself and calling the first name on my list!! and it cost me quite a lot of money when it kept doing this! so i put a name with no number at the beginning. maybe hes done the same? unlikely but possible.

well hes right that hes entitled to his privacy. my ex never used to like me looking at his phone, so i didnt because i respect his privacy. however he wasnt so obsessed with it as your bf seems to be! it is a bit weird if hes always sooo careful for you not to see his phone. but maybe hes just scared of letting you into his life too much and wants to keep some things to himself. if you're really worried about this, the only thing you can do is talk to him. its not going to do anyone any good if you sneekily look at his phone. like you found this contact, you probably feel you cant ask him about it, because he'll be cross you looked at his phone! if you keep looking, you'll probably see things but you dont dare ask him about it because you wont want him to know you were looking at his phone! so i think you probably just need to talk to him and ask him why he keeps hiding his phone from you. tell him you dont mind him having his privacy and everything, but its making you a bit paranoid that maybe somethings going on. see what he says to that. if nothings going on and he cares about you then he'll probably give you the phone to look at so that you can calm your fears! if he still hides it then maybe you should start worrying a bit.