How to come to terms with being UGLY

It's frustrating but always just try and be the best person you can be. Buy nice clothes, go to the gym, wear make-up,get a good haircut etc.

Make-up on a guy? Certainly isn't seen as a normal thing to do in our society...

You need to recognise it and accept it. Once you've done that, you can start taking steps to improve yourself. As has been previously mentioned, get a decent haircut, cleanse, exfoliate and moisturise your face every day, update your wardrobe so you always have something clean, presentable and respectable to wear, maintain good hygiene, use some perfume, work on other things e.g. your posture, your facial expressions, the way you walk, they way you talk...become confident and accept yourself for who you are. It may all sound really trite, but it's what you have to do. The more effort you put in, the better you'll feel about yourself, it should help to boost your confidence, even if just by a little bit.

Surgery is a bit extreme...unless you have a serious disfigurement, it's a last resort. And make up is only for women. You need to work on your personality and confidence. That seems to be the standard advice for this type of problem.

Personality is even harder to adapt though, I mean my personality is me, my appearance is just my body. It's difficult changing your physical body, but I'd imagine changing who you actually are is even harder. I was made to be shy/quiet/nervouswreck/worryer. How am I supposed to overcome that :s I thought changing how I look would help me shape who I am, it might refine my personality a bit and give me a bit more confidence, but I really don't know how to make any real improvements without surgery.


Anyways are you stalking me because you post on most of my crisis threads on this account and my other :s

You sound like a ****er. Ugly inside too?

You sound like a ****er. Ugly inside too?

Why put such a big emphasis on aesthetic qualities? They will fade with thine and ultimately disappear on death.

It's our inner being who lives on, the laughs we create, the love we share, the souls we touch.

because the world places a huge emphasis on appearances and I'm too weak to find my own way looking as I do.

Find your inner strength to not only change your life, but of those around you.

I have come to terms with not being attractive. I have quite a girly face that can only be fixed by plastic surgery to square off my jaw.

I've acknowledged a problem so now I've got two options:

a) sort it out, e.g. surgery, make-up, paper bag
b) just ignore/accept it

I need opinions on where to go from here.
Please.