Girls , have you ever / would you make a move on a guy ?

i did with my boyfriend now of four years :P we were best friends but leaning towards a couple so one day i kissed him

i was also the first one to say i love you {:

i did with my boyfriend now of four years :P we were best friends but leaning towards a couple so one day i kissed him

i was also the first one to say i love you {:

Not technically. Kind of.

My current fiance was very shy and insecure, he barely spoke when we first met. I wasn't put off and did everything I could to make him feel comfortable (talking a lot and responding positively to him as though I didn't notice how fumbled/quiet he was). I arranged our adventures. He'd say he'd arrange the next meeting then just not. I felt like he was scared of anything he arranged not being good enough rather than not wanting to see me. So I would keep asking, then suggesting options until we finalised all the details (we were long distance).

Everything seemed to work against him. He thought he could afford a festival ticket, only our second meeting, then he couldn't - so I paid for him even though it was expensive and we still didn't know each other well yet (he did pay me back later). Even though I gave him the details, he accidentally got tickets for the wrong days when we were going to the Edinburgh festival. So I found people to sell/give my tickets to and got ones for the days he did instead. Then, he didn't turn up to meet me. For 8 hours I was alone in Edinburgh with no contact (his phone was dead). I felt like I knew him, so I never doubted there would be some crazy explanation (he got on the wrong coach and went to the middle of nowhere first) and reassured him I didn't mind.

Basically, I put in a lot of effort because he was so nervous. If I hadn't, we wouldn't have met up probably - he would have been too scared and thought I wasn't interested enough.
He did have to tell me he liked me first though before I could even begin to realise the depth of my feelings for him, I thought I just liked him as a friend. He said he didn't imagine I felt the same way, but he didn't mind and still wanted to be friends, just wanted to tell me anyway. I talked about every reason a relationship between us might not work and he explained how he didn't see them as obstacles so then I was thinking 'huh, so he does really like me' but didn't think more of it. The next night, we were having a party just the two of us in my room. I was a bit inebirated rolling around on his lap looking up at him and said "Is there anything you want to ask me?", he said 'no?' then I pushed him asking if he was suuure, so he asked me if I wanted to be his girlfriend. I said "I'm not going to answer right now" because I wasn't sober, "but when I do the answer will be yes".

Sort of a joint thing, we both had to like each other and try to be with each other I suppose. He definitely didn't have to do all the risk-taking.

Not technically. Kind of.

My current fiance was very shy and insecure, he barely spoke when we first met. I wasn't put off and did everything I could to make him feel comfortable (talking a lot and responding positively to him as though I didn't notice how fumbled/quiet he was). I arranged our adventures. He'd say he'd arrange the next meeting then just not. I felt like he was scared of anything he arranged not being good enough rather than not wanting to see me. So I would keep asking, then suggesting options until we finalised all the details (we were long distance).

Everything seemed to work against him. He thought he could afford a festival ticket, only our second meeting, then he couldn't - so I paid for him even though it was expensive and we still didn't know each other well yet (he did pay me back later). Even though I gave him the details, he accidentally got tickets for the wrong days when we were going to the Edinburgh festival. So I found people to sell/give my tickets to and got ones for the days he did instead. Then, he didn't turn up to meet me. For 8 hours I was alone in Edinburgh with no contact (his phone was dead). I felt like I knew him, so I never doubted there would be some crazy explanation (he got on the wrong coach and went to the middle of nowhere first) and reassured him I didn't mind.

Basically, I put in a lot of effort because he was so nervous. If I hadn't, we wouldn't have met up probably - he would have been too scared and thought I wasn't interested enough.
He did have to tell me he liked me first though before I could even begin to realise the depth of my feelings for him, I thought I just liked him as a friend. He said he didn't imagine I felt the same way, but he didn't mind and still wanted to be friends, just wanted to tell me anyway. I talked about every reason a relationship between us might not work and he explained how he didn't see them as obstacles so then I was thinking 'huh, so he does really like me' but didn't think more of it. The next night, we were having a party just the two of us in my room. I was a bit inebirated rolling around on his lap looking up at him and said "Is there anything you want to ask me?", he said 'no?' then I pushed him asking if he was suuure, so he asked me if I wanted to be his girlfriend. I said "I'm not going to answer right now" because I wasn't sober, "but when I do the answer will be yes".

Sort of a joint thing, we both had to like each other and try to be with each other I suppose. He definitely didn't have to do all the risk-taking.

I find that I dont really connect with all that many men as I am looking for something Pacific in personality and a physical connection aswell but I did in a weird unconventional way kind of let someone know once that I was interested in getting to know them once but it didnt work out the way I had hoped for at all. Even though it was not the out come I had dreamed of I still believe if you want something you should go get it, lifes to short and you never know they could feel the same way

What are you talking about, girls approach guys all the damn time. Just go hang out somewhere where there are lots of girls and look attractive and they will come up to you.