Why Won't Some Parents Discipline Their Kids Properly?

I'm not advocating child abuse, of course, but the amount of little brats I see running around nowadays is staggering. I seriously think some people shouldn't be allowed to have kids, as you can nearly always see why said children act the way they do after seeing how their parents "discipline" them - or, rather, don't. Sometimes, they just turn a blind eye (even if their kid's doing something like being rude to a stranger in public) and are completely irresponsible. It's not just stereotypical "chavs" who do this either; in fact, middle-class and upper-class parents are often the worst and seem to have a very naive, "free-for-all" view of how to parent.

I've heard that kids in some European countries (Germany, Sweden and Finland in particular) and ofc Asian countries (China etc.) are much better disciplined than British ones.

Most of Asian/Arab/Blacks I have seen respect their parents , unlike the English.

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I agree with the first bit... But I still don't think you should say 'unlike the English'. That's still mass generalisation. What do we even mean by English? You can have English Asians and English Arabs so...



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Asian parents do tend to be stricter and have higher expectations of their kids. Yes, some parents do unintentionally abuse their kids emotionally. My parents did just that when I was younger and they still do sometimes through their criticisms. Yes, some parents do hit their kids as a form of punishment. My father did that to me on occasion when I was a little kid. In fact, non-asian parents might be shocked if they witness this as it can appear to be aggravated child abuse.

For us
Elder = wiser. Therefore elder person deserves respect.
I like that our manners a lot. Here, in the UK, I seen so many times kids shouting at their parents, saying : Shut up, Fu** off etc. It's disgusting. Spoiled brats. Of course not everyone is like that, but still, western kids need some manners. ....manners like respecting parents, teachers, etc, evolved from Indian culture.

Asian parents expect their kids to be polite, respectable individuals, but sometimes their expectations and parenting tactics can cause intense stress. My parents did it out of love Iguess cause now im a sucessfull business man living the good life.

I'm not advocating child abuse, of course, but the amount of little brats I see running around nowadays is staggering. I seriously think some people shouldn't be allowed to have kids, as you can nearly always see why said children act the way they do after seeing how their parents "discipline" them - or, rather, don't. Sometimes, they just turn a blind eye (even if their kid's doing something like being rude to a stranger in public) and are completely irresponsible. It's not just stereotypical "chavs" who do this either; in fact, middle-class and upper-class parents are often the worst and seem to have a very naive, "free-for-all" view of how to parent.

Too many parents these days treat their kids like "little adults" or extensions of them, rather than small children who actually need some proper ****ing rules and boundaries set. I think kids are often spoiled with too much/the wrong stuff, too. What's with all the really young kids (sometimes even toddler age) having their own iPads and iPhones and such? (I don't live in a chavvy area, btw, it's actually really middle-class but you know what some middle-class mothers are like!) Surely so much screen time is bad for them? But some parents seem to treat technology like a virtual babysitter or just be plain tired of their offspring. Don't have them in the first damn place, then.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that all British kids today are brought up badly. But parenting standards on average do seem to have fallen through the floor. Why is this? People certainly aren't having kids any earlier on average, I'm pretty sure, so are parents just more immature even despite the fact that women aren't necessarily having kids in their early 20s any more?

That is a racist assumption, it is also very ignorant. Not all whites are disrespectful to their parents :/

English=Ethnicity
British=Nationality

When I mean English , I mean whites.

AGREED! It's annoying...like why even have kids if you can't bring them up as good-natured and civilised citizens?

haha, going to keep my mouth closed.

That is a racist assumption, it is also very ignorant. Not all whites are disrespectful to their parents :/

successive governments have removed the ability of parents to discipline their young children ( becuase of high profile media cases of child abuse. they then grow up to talk back to their parents as if they were their school friends, and parents also act childishly by tying to have a debate or argument with them, or trying to make and be their best friend. fast-forward to thick teenage kids with problems with authority and discipline and ultimalty underacheiving adults and equally feckless parents themselves , starting the cycle all over again

Look at their history/today behaviours

They are imperial criminals and seeds of Satan.

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Please don't treat this person seriously. If they are being serious then they have simply gone beyond the point of no return.

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