How do you accept being single?

Lately I have been feeling incredibly sexually frustrated and lonely. I haven't had sex in ages and I've been single for god knows how long. It has been making me feel so depressed, especially when ypu have to listen to your mates in relationships talk about how much sex they're getting and how they're off on tropical holidays with their girlfriends. I feel like a bit of a loser.

I've been trying to make myself feel happy that I'm single, but I have no idea how to do it anymore. Everytime I attempt I end up thinking how lonely I am. How can I accept being single? How does one embrace singledom? How can you be happy when you get no sex nor have no girlfriend?

Frustrating as hell, isn't it? I have a wide circle of friends and every single one of them without fail is completely loved up, spending all their time with their boy/girlfriend and in most cases, off on some fancy foreign holiday with them. By contrast i'm sitting alone in my house, desperate for someone to talk to because all of my housemates and friends are away with their boy/girlfriend. Makes me feel completely inferior to them.

All this talk about going out, being able to do what you want or travel is largely irrelevant. All of my friends are in relationships so they don't want to do anything like that unless it's with their other half! The last time I went out it was with 2 of my friends who are a couple, they obviously couldn't keep their hands off each other and it made me feel like ****. Like i'd only been invited out of pity.

I can't see this situation ever changing either, which doesn't help.

Single means you can do whatever you wish to do as a single male with no consequences (who says you won't get sex? If you want it, you can go after it)

Then they end up going in early because they all so desperately want to have sex with each other. I never go out with couples anymore. It's boring as hell. There at least has to be one crazy single person to spice up the party.

Sometimes I feel the only singles who have it good are single females. Being a single man sort of sucks, unless you are pretty attractive. I'm working on my body a lot at the gym lately as a result (i'd be lying if i don't admit the main reason I go to the gym is female attention), though after I get over this arm injury i'm going back!

Dude, relax. You don't need a relationship to be happy. If you're struggling with the sexless bit, get hammered on a few nights out, you'll find someone to do .

If all fails, masturbate furiously using your tears as lube.

Been where you are. Actually reckon its really common. The only answer is persistence and patience. Things eventually come good and you can make up for lost time. In parallel new hobbies - preferably with target rich environments - and lots of beer help.

Lately I have been feeling incredibly sexually frustrated and lonely. I haven't had sex in ages and I've been single for god knows how long. It has been making me feel so depressed, especially when ypu have to listen to your mates in relationships talk about how much sex they're getting and how they're off on tropical holidays with their girlfriends. I feel like a bit of a loser.

I've been trying to make myself feel happy that I'm single, but I have no idea how to do it anymore. Everytime I attempt I end up thinking how lonely I am. How can I accept being single? How does one embrace singledom? How can you be happy when you get no sex nor have no girlfriend?

Creepy A F, pal.

Just my flippant turn of phrase. Don't you ever search out target rich environments ?