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18 year old guy and considering escort

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Original post by Anonymous
It's not really about whether its normal or not. I just want to have sex , the longer I go the more desperate I become .

Some guys are happy jacking off every day but I really dislike the effects of watching porn and how easy it is to get addicted .


If all you plan to do is to have sex once (i.e. losing your virginity), your plan might work.
But if you want to have sex (regularly) with this level of desperation, it might affect your daily life.

P.S. Desperation is a turn off to many girls. Confidence is the opposite.
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Lose your virginity to a women you won't mind remembering , you don't want to remember an escort as your first I doubt anyone would.

You are 18 as well I understand being male that you get a lot of pressure to lose it fast but that's life you just have to be mentally strong and not cave in to this pressure. Plus you are 18 there is no reason to rush you are still young if you just socialise within your peer group I am sure you will find a women on a night out to communicate with and potentially get laid.

Reading this thread though I keep seeing you repeat that you are ugly this tells me that you are low in confidence and self respect if you truly want to get with a women you have to lose this mentality of insulting yourself it does not look good. I wonder how you are when approaching women if it's a weird sort of shy approach and you can't make them laugh you won't stand a chance just work on your communication skills for now don't be in such a hurry to lose it, for any healthy male it will come in time also if you are watching any sort of porn at all decrease or stop fully because this is increasing your want for sex for sure.
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Original post by paperclip1213
Definitely not. Advertising with this account would be dangerous.
I was kidding about the irony of your post.
OP here , I know im resurrecting a dead thread and all but I just feel like writing this down helps me some how in my predicament and thinking process.

In recent weeks i've been out a couple times to various nightclubs around London , my experiences have varied from being in one club where the girls were incredibly bitchy and defensive , even asking if they were in the queue . I did make eye contact with one or two on the dancefloor and try and initiate dancing but they put me down lol . Not really bothered as ive been rejected countless times. Whilst out in the smoking area this cute morrocan girl came over to me who was slightly drunk and was asking me and my friend where we are from and how our nights been etc , we was talking for a while but she had to go and when she left she told me I was beautiful :s-smilie::colondollar:

In the second club it was more of an underground club with awesome music and I spent most of the time with friends just enjoying myself to the music . Whilst over at the bar this girl and her friend where next to me so I just sparked up random coversation , I was a bit cheeky and one of her friends took it offensive lol but later in the night I was dancing close with her and snogged her for a few seconds , but before I could take it any further she disappeared.

I went out by myself last night for the first time and it was quite a crappy experience , most of the clubs where really empty and like I thought I did get really bored by myself . I ended up just walking home at like 2am or something.

All in all though I think its quite silly that one night stands are glorified whereas if someone was to get an escort or something they'd be shamed . God knows how much money guys spend in clubs to pull when they could save probably half of what they spend , still considering it really . I don't think im that bad looking its just I'm not the type of guy who appears attractive to girls on nights out , I think im just wasting my time.

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