Using tinder "with the boys"

I don't really understand why he'd still use the app now he's in a relationship, 'banter' or not. Maybe ask him how he'd feel if you still used it?

To me it sort of sounds like bullsh*t ('the boys won't like it', seriously) but that's just my personal opinion.

lel I don't think it's BS. Ask to check his phone and see if he's been messaging any of them.

It's probably just bragging rights with the friends + they probably troll girls on tinder for laughs.

I don't really understand why he'd still use the app now he's in a relationship, 'banter' or not. Maybe ask him how he'd feel if you still used it?

To me it sort of sounds like bullsh*t ('the boys won't like it', seriously) but that's just my personal opinion.

lel I don't think it's BS. Ask to check his phone and see if he's been messaging any of them.

It's probably just bragging rights with the friends + they probably troll girls on tinder for laughs.

Nah I think it's true groups of boy mates always seem to get annoyed when they're mostly single and one guy is in a relationship. Means they cant go on pussy patrol holidays etc lol and if the guy really likes the girl he is with they will take the piss a lot. I've observed that a lot. It's really silly but it's just one of those dynamics that happens in guy groups



Oh yeah, great idea, then he'll think she trusts him ... lol. :P


OP, I think if he offered to delete the app there and then he is being pretty genuine. If you wanted him to delete it you should have told him to really. Did you tell him to delete and he refused straight out with the 'boys' excuse? If he did refuse straight out I would see how it goes, and treat him with a little caution, don't go in blind-eyed. He has given you reason to mistrust him if he wouldn't delete when asked. If you backed out and made out like it wasnt that big a deal, sorry to say that's poor communication and it isn't really his fault if he didn't delete it. If something's an issue for you, at any point in the relationship, make it clear that it's an issue and stick with your guns.

Is that what you do?


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Nah I think it's true groups of boy mates always seem to get annoyed when they're mostly single and one guy is in a relationship. Means they cant go on pussy patrol holidays etc lol and if the guy really likes the girl he is with they will take the piss a lot. I've observed that a lot. It's really silly but it's just one of those dynamics that happens in guy groups



Oh yeah, great idea, then he'll think she trusts him ... lol. :P


OP, I think if he offered to delete the app there and then he is being pretty genuine. If you wanted him to delete it you should have told him to really. Did you tell him to delete and he refused straight out with the 'boys' excuse? If he did refuse straight out I would see how it goes, and treat him with a little caution, don't go in blind-eyed. He has given you reason to mistrust him if he wouldn't delete when asked. If you backed out and made out like it wasnt that big a deal, sorry to say that's poor communication and it isn't really his fault if he didn't delete it. If something's an issue for you, at any point in the relationship, make it clear that it's an issue and stick with your guns.

I've recently got into a relationship with a guy who I met on tinder and it's going really well. We have agreed to be exclusive and he makes me feel like the happiest girl ever (cringe).

The other day we were out and his phone went off and I looked and it was a tinder girl messaging him on the app....as you can imagine I was really annoyed. He told me that when he goes out with the boys they load up tinder to see how many matches they get but because he's with me he doesn't message them.....and i wonder does that sound believable?

He offered to delete it but said the boys won't like it if he does as it's just "banter" but it really hurt me that he didn't....

Do you think he's using it to get other girls or does the whole lads using tinder to get matches thing sound true?