Isn't my aunty rude?

I think you are missing the sound logic to my suggestion.

i'm not a flirt!!! Flirting uncles is not my job.
And why did you ask that sort of a question?

I didn't realise flirting was a potential career choice.

Well you see... the only person that appears to have an issue with you fawning after your cousin is your aunt. So if you can give your aunt something else to focus on (i.e. the suspicion that your uncle may be up to something), this would free you up to pursue.

I don't get what you mean the words I bolded here Sorry if I sounded harsh. i know flirting big people is not my character is what i meant.

You probably don't want to be taking my advice

Well then.....I'm definitely in the 75%

Me and my cousin loved each other.
My cousin married another girl cos getting baby with cousins can affect the baby.
I was sad and missed my cousin and also was a bit angry about him leaving me.
So, I didn't reply to any of his call. He stopped answering my calls, emails and texts.
His mother once spoke rude to me- You don't deserve my son and you don't have much qualifications to stand next to him.
I felt really worried and cried later on.
I felt worried for my cousin for not understanding my situation. I cannot tell him that his mother spoke rude to me cos he won't like me speaking bad about his mother. He loves his mother a lot. I also didn't say as he said his decision was to marry another girl and also not to ruin his and his mother's relationship. Feeling really worried...Missing him so much..I still feel him coming closer to me and my lips and whispering into my ears softly..I love him alot..

Don't take that lying down. Confront them both. FIGHT! WIN!

but he's married

It's not about the country but about the heart and mind of a person.
There are girls like me in character around the world!
Not all Sri Lankan girls or not all girls in the world are good or either bad. All human beings are a mix of good and bad but, situations only turn them to be bad alone.
I'm not bad either. If we have brains we can be good and solve our own problems. That is the best and intelligent way than behaving bad to others.

Ok ma'am.


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For those of us climbing to the top of the food chain, there can be no mercy. There is but one rule: hunt or be hunted. After all, we are nothing more or less than what we choose to reveal.

What are you trying to tell? I understand and appreciate that you have some point but, i couldn't understand . Can you explain me?

then you have to move on dont you!

He's basically saying that its a dog eat dog world and you have to fight for what you want

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yes i have to...but not from my thoughts and heart..but physically for this world I'll live a happy married life . but also just think of him also as I can't forget him like that and it is lies for anyone to tell they totally forgot their ex

you have to make an attempt to remove him from your heart. keeping him there will only hurt you! i get that you love him and that you dont wish to let him go, but he has clearly moved on so do you like that he doesnt seem to care?
i dont think its lies when they say that they have forgotten there ex! some people are more willing to accept the fact they they have to move on. they rid themselves of the thoughts of their ex and become happier. of course you never really forget but actively trying to remember them is not in your best interests.
who know! you may marry and be more in love than you think you are now?

I didn't realise flirting was a potential career choice.

Well you see... the only person that appears to have an issue with you fawning after your cousin is your aunt. So if you can give your aunt something else to focus on (i.e. the suspicion that your uncle may be up to something), this would free you up to pursue.