last night when I mentioned this to my dad, he facetiously responded (while usually sympathetic to my anxiety) that this is just an excuse not to work.
Secondly when he noticed my admittedly excessive Internet usage, he accused me of watching child porn, bestiality and other taboo things etc. because of my 'obsession with extremes'. I have never done anything of this sort.
I don't think he realises what it is like to live in the incapacitating fear that you have just had a thought which if you ever act on or even admit to having you may be stigmatised for the rest of your life. And in this case, lose my chance to fulfil one of my life goals.