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Don't get drunk and barely drink at all. Been at uni for 11 days now AMA

As the title suggests. This is for those of you worried about the social side of uni or those who don't drink and are a little apprehensive :smile:

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Which course are you on at uni?
I start my second year on Monday, and expect that there's going to be a lot of pressure to drink. However I rarely drink or go to places where drinking is involved.

The idea of drinking, or getting blind drunk, doesn't really appeal to me. Due to this I'm usually viewed as 'square' or 'reclusive', but drinking shouldn't be undertaken to merely enhance a personal image. In my opinion.
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Original post by Shambles77
I start my second year on Monday, and expect that there's going to be a lot of pressure to drink. However I rarely drink or go to places where drinking is involved.

The idea of drinking, or getting blind drunk, doesn't really appeal to me. Due to this I'm usually viewed as 'square' or 'reclusive', but drinking shouldn't be undertaken to merely enhance a personal image. In my opinion.


I'm sure you're not viewed like that because you don't get drunk.
Original post by samba
I'm sure you're not viewed like that because you don't get drunk.


Haha xD Well, it must be something else then! xD
Original post by gagaslilmonsteruk
Which course are you on at uni?


environmental earth science :smile:
Why don't you drink?
Do you dislike when others drink around you?
Original post by Shambles77
I start my second year on Monday, and expect that there's going to be a lot of pressure to drink. However I rarely drink or go to places where drinking is involved.

The idea of drinking, or getting blind drunk, doesn't really appeal to me. Due to this I'm usually viewed as 'square' or 'reclusive', but drinking shouldn't be undertaken to merely enhance a personal image. In my opinion.


I dont have this problem I still go out to dinner and chat to people and cook meals for everyone.
its not the alcohol thats attractive its the confidence that goes with it :smile:

...plus I dont mention I dont drink I just order soft drinks and no one says anything
:smile:
Original post by LavenderBlueSky88
Why don't you drink?


its nothing moral or anything like that it just takes very little alcohol to make me sick. Also I take ibuprofen most days so its better not to drink :smile:
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Moved to AMA
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But in fairness you are quite good looking which would compensate in many people's eyes (the guys at least) for being a non-drinking 'bore'.

Of course that isn't your fault (why should it be) however, this may be a reason why others (both men and women) struggle to be accepted so easily when they don't drink. Other reasons including social anxiety and low self-confidence, of course.

[just my opinion don't take the wrong way about guys at uni]
shrug:

I don't drink either however I know I saw myself like that in first year!

So how have you socialised instead? Exactly the same parties as everyone else minus the boozing or did you take the societies/alternative activities with flatmates route? :smile:

I think this is a decent OP, a lot of freshers are very worried about having to be really into drinking, clubbing, parties, casual sex, sometimes drugs, to fit in at Uni. It would be good to disprove that for their peace of mind.
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Original post by Hal.E.Lujah
Do you dislike when others drink around you?


not at all drinking is a personal choice
people just need to keep themselves safe :smile:
Original post by Reue
Moved to AMA


thank you wasnt sure where it should have gone :smile:
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Original post by behindblueglass
thank you wasnt sure where it should have gone :smile:


No worries, this is a relatively new sub-forum.
Original post by behindblueglass
its nothing moral or anything like that it just takes very little alcohol to make me sick. Also I take ibuprofen most days so its better not to drink :smile:


You're thinking of paracetomol. Ibruprofen + alcohol is fine
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Original post by cole-slaw
You're thinking of paracetomol. Ibruprofen + alcohol is fine


there's a lot of medication which it's better not to drink with tbf. However yeah Ibuprofen isn't one to worry about
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I'm not a big drinker either! I might have a couple of drinks out but have never been drunk and it has never been a problem for me. I've also been to all the fresher's activities and frequently go out to pubs casually with mates (although I don't take part in predrinking). Most people at uni don't even care/notice as long as you are fun to hang around with and I have never once been called a bore, in fact quite the opposite! Plus I think my friends appreciate having someone sober around on nights out!
Original post by Riku
But in fairness you are quite good looking which would compensate in many people's eyes (the guys at least) for being a non-drinking 'bore'.

Of course that isn't your fault (why should it be) however, this may be a reason why others (both men and women) struggle to be accepted so easily when they don't drink. Other reasons including social anxiety and low self-confidence, of course.

[just my opinion don't take the wrong way about guys at uni]
shrug:

I don't drink either however I know I saw myself like that in first year!

So how have you socialised instead? Exactly the same parties as everyone else minus the boozing or did you take the societies/alternative activities with flatmates route? :smile:

I think this is a decent OP, a lot of freshers are very worried about having to be really into drinking, clubbing, parties, casual sex, sometimes drugs, to fit in at Uni. It would be good to disprove that for their peace of mind.


In all fairness I wouldn't class myself as good looking, I'm about 5ft 3 and a little on the chunky side in real life. Plus I slightly edit my photos. But no you make a fair point I'm not a gargoyle!

I agree entirely that it can be down to a social state of mind. My mindset is I just do not give a flying monkeys what people think of me. I'm paying 9,000 to be here plus accommodation plus living expenses. So I refuse to do things that make me miserable. Overall I'm here to get a good degree and get a good job and drinking does not enhance this.

So far I've been swamped with my course currently doing about 19 hours a week including 3 field works where I was out from 9-5. I have been out to dinner with my flat, and chat to each member when I bump into them. I've cooked enchiladas for my flat and watch films/tv series with other members.

I feel like alcohol does not improve my social skills, my mind gets foggy and I lose a little bit of me that makes me quirky.

As for drugs and casual sex. I'm not into either of them like alcohol I assume drugs would not react well with me. I do have a long term boyfriend who is at the same uni so casual sex is not necessary, meaningful sex on the other hand appeals to me more :wink:

But no I agree, guys challenge the social stereotype, be exactly what you want to be, do whatever makes you comfortable. Sure go out and express yourself, but maybe exercise some self control. :biggrin:
Original post by cole-slaw
You're thinking of paracetomol. Ibruprofen + alcohol is fine



Original post by Riku
there's a lot of medication which it's better not to drink with tbf. However yeah Ibuprofen isn't one to worry about


Oh well this is news to me! *grabs the bottle of vodka*..I kid of course
At least i don't have to worry about the odd glass of wine once every month or whatever! :smile:

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